Success comes in waves. If you expect to never have dry spells or periods of frequent rejection, you will be sorely disappointed

The idea of the unbeatable ladies’ man who has unending options with women is a myth.

This is partially a result of the cartoonish portrayal of attraction from Pick Up Artist culture, along with other forms of fiction.

Even men who have general success with women will experience periods where their rejections far outnumber their successes, and options with women seem to disappear for weeks at a time.

Then, the floodgates open. Women seemingly appear to become more receptive, sometimes making it difficult to balance options.

This is how it works. You will go through periods where the rejections seem frequent, and you wonder what you’re doing wrong. Stay the course, put yourself out there, whether it’s day game, online dating, or just being generally sociable through clubs and activities. The waves will come.