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I asked a girl out today

ajejejebrazocrew

March 9, 2022

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Title	I asked a girl out today
Author	ajejejebrazocrew
Upvotes	91
Comments	35
Date	March 9, 2022 8:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tagins/i_asked_a_girl_out_today/
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[–]Delicatestatesmen 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

girls give mixed signals all the time. But once you ask them out it doesn’t matter. What matters is if they want to go on a date or not that is all you should take away from previous engagements. Women are non confrontational typically the fameniane ones. They don’t want to upset anyone so they try to please everyone. What you take as signs or signals for more of a romantic interest can be mistaken easily. You have to see how she is with other people and what dynamics you have with her. She could be the way she is with you with many dudes. Also if your a co worker etc socially connected shes less likely to hard reject you or want to upset you. Also if your a scary guy or large in statue she may be nicer to be safe from harm. All these things you have to add to the overall equation. But in the end if she doesn’t want to go on a date the answer is no.

You can always try a few months later to reengage women interest change day to day month to month and timing has everything to do with it.

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[–]Delicatestatesmen 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

So as a big guy you have to be aware that your size does come into the equation.

Also her flirty or doing ioi’s to other dudes should make u more cautious. Girls wield their attractiveness and persuasion all over the place.

I believe you should never be pushy or ask a girl out multiple times after a rejection. Dudes on here will say the otherwise but they are just going to turn off the girl or get walked all over. A man of value presents himself and asks the girl out if she says no he moves on very simple. Many men watch these movies where the guy has to fight villains and prove himself just for the girl to give him a shot and in the movie the girl doesn’t have to prove shit.

If she is a flirty type personality or an attention gabler then you just need to do the opposite of what men usually do when she is around.

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Unless you're with her 24/7, a few hours a day doesn't mean much. She's not gonna outright tell you she's hooking up with some attractive, dominant, charismatic Chad or Tyrone who approached her several weeks ago and has been meeting up for quick chill sessions a couple hours 2x a week. They DONT just do this if they know you like them and they can soak up your free attention, ego boost, food, drinks, emotional support, time, etc. Females(especially ATTRACTIVE by your words) don't work that way, homie.

Source:

I've been in the bed with a chick while she's talking to her mom(and boyfriend) on phone, been kissing another chick while her boyfriend was home babysitting, had another female coworker trying to know "what time I'm leaving today" while smiling/blushing at me. She witnessed me and another coworker flirting. Plus, HER boyfriend visited her(saw me across the room, paid me zero attention) and was none the wiser that "his" girl was trying to linkup with me after work. I could have easily WORE HER BACK OUT afterwork then sent her home to him...none-the-wiser. Females really are that slick and hookups don't take more than an hour...when done right. So. YOU really don't KNOW if she's doing anything with some other guy. Just focus on SHOOTING YOUR SHOT, OP. Good luck, homie.

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