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[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What are you asking? We don’t know either one of your schedules … coordinate a date with her that works for both of you
[–]99pints -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
bruh that’s the problem! it’s like she wants me to pick a day but when i pick a day she’s busy and i just feel like girls hate to make decisions on things so i just don’t want to put the ball in her court and she flakes
[–]Delicious-Emphasis50 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you are overthinking man
[–]Hmmoklolthisisfine 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You give her a time and date
If she says it doesn’t work and she doesn’t offer a time to reschedule then move on
If she says your day doesn’t work but she wants to coordinate a different day then figure it out with her
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[–]99pints 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
that’s what i was thinking but i feel like she wants me to be dominant and decide a day, even though last time i did that she said she was busy. so maybe i should ask her when she’s free but suggest a day also
[–]Powerful_College_424 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro. You’re thinking way too much. Please stop 🤣🤣. She doesn’t want you to be “dominant” by suggesting a certain day of the week. Just literally say “does Saturday (or any night you’re free) night work for you?” And if she says yeah, that’s it. Says no, suggest a different day. If after 3 suggestions of date/time works (I doubt shes THAT busy) “do weekdays or weekends work better for you?” “Morning, afternoon or evening?” Then you’ll be 100% good.
Stop thinking start doing bro. The more you overthink the worse you’ll produce, and lowering your chances of getting laid
[–]UnknownWolf719 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think my man meant to say to take the initiative
[–]Powerful_College_424 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s a better word for it. But even then I wouldn’t even consider it that deep, just OP do your best to find a day that works for the both of you.
[–]SonOfSatan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I literally always just suggest a day or two that I'm free and she'll either tell me she's free one of the days or she's too busy and we reschedule. Taking the lead is important but if you are too focused on the minutiae then you're just spinning your wheels man. Also I don't know how old you are but a movie is a terrible first date, you should have decided to get a drink with her.
[–]ZoeticLark 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I was thinking Saturday, does that work for you?" Is she says no, without offering an alternative, you will have to train her to be a little more engaged.. start l with a follow up question... Which day does work for you? If its pulling teeth to get an answer, then that's your answer. People who cant engage halfway shouldn't be dating or bothering with friendship. But naturally, people sign up to be rugs and manipulators, its all about what works or doesnt for you. You don't want to be too open and flexible, at first, but offering a clear idea with an easy alternate is very nice and mature.
[–]RSNK10 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t do movies unless you’re already smashing
[–]No-Department6252 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
invite her to your place to Netflix and chill
[–]ClockNo6655 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro y’all really be overthinking too much shit 😭😭😭😭
[–]Long-Variation9993 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pick a day dude… it doesn’t matter
[–]geardluffy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh this is easy. Just ask her something as simple as: “are you free on xxxday?” If you’re close enough with her that you’re making movie plans, you can ask her what days she’s free.
[–]UnknownWolf719 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pick a day and time. Smell good and have fun
[–]lildudefromXdastreet 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol this sub has gotten so bad
[–]merchant_of_mirrors 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's a place for people to learn, of course the noobs are gonna ask noob questions
[–]lildudefromXdastreet 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There were always noobs, but this shit is ridiculous lmao
[–]merchant_of_mirrors 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro stop asking girls on movie dates for first dates.
You gotta be decisive. Pick a night and tell her. If she says she's busy but doesn't suggest an alternative, she's not interested. Movie dates are terrible first dates fyi but hey maybe you can get something to eat beforehand so you get a chance to talk.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you're doing it over text. If so then you have no chance. Get off the damn keyboard and call her yourself to figure it out.
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