Should I try Alcohol to get enough courage during cold approaching

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-02-24T22:07:38+00:00

You need to work on your confidence. You can’t rely on alcohol forever. Some day you’ll just have to be a man.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-02-24T22:29:06+00:00

No. It will hurt ur game

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-02-25T05:21:04+00:00

If your anxiety is as high as you say, it will take a lot of alcohol to overcome it. If you take a lot of alcohol, you will be impaired to the point of sloppiness. You won't care, but you won't succeed either. It's a fool's game.

The only way to truly expand your abilities is by confronting your demons. You have to learn how to stare down your anxiety and act in your best interest, even when it's screaming at you.

Start small if you have to, but focus on building that muscle. You can push past that negative voice in your head.

doreenwalksdogs · 2022-02-25T02:39:04+00:00

I don’t know about it all so don’t take my word but if your gonna start relying on getting a confidence boost from alcohol it can become a dependency and then you lose all your confidence when sober. Leading to not believing in yourself and low self esteem.

RSNK10 · 2022-02-25T00:53:50+00:00

I’m working on this process right now. I’ve always had to rely on alcohol to be comfortable talking to people or approaching girls. It seems like I only have success when I’m drinking but I’m realizing I need to be able to feel confident and present without it. It kind of feels like a setback but I’m realizing I’m actually starting the learning process right now. Give it a shot (no pun intended) without alcohol or at least limit your drinks to 3 MAX.

jewess82 · 2022-02-25T04:47:26+00:00

This isn't going to help you at all. Stay true to you or your just going to end up with women who bulldoze you

2022-02-25T05:13:09+00:00

I would try it honestly. why not?

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2022-02-25T07:57:20+00:00

Do you have to get drunk to talk to your friends? To talk to your family? To talk to the stranger at the register scanning your food at the register? Probably not, right? So why would you need to get drunk to talk to a woman, who is just as much human as any other person in your life.

MacaroniInMyEar · 2022-02-25T14:58:24+00:00

My confidence got up since quitting drugs, I'm clean for over a year. That said from your post I gather that you aren't experienced at all with them.

I think that getting drunk or high and socializing can open some gates as a one time experience. But after that there won't be any benefits, quite contrary. And it is risky because you can catch yourself chasing that social mindset.

So: if you never talked with girls drunk I recommend doing it once, 60 ml of pure alcohol should be enough, so 3 vodka shots, 3 beers or a bottle of wine without one cup.

Weed dosages are a lot more tricky, I would start with a one good puff from a joint and wait 10 minutes, then decide if you need more. Just be responsible. You don't want to lose clear thinking.

5_7pickup · 2022-02-26T09:32:33+00:00

Alot of people are against alcohol but Im not. Just dont get plastered. If you wanna take 2 shots go for it.

If you game tipsy alot, youll eventually be able to do it sober. Being tipsy and sober really isnt that big of a difference.

Title	Should I try Alcohol to get enough courage during cold approaching
Author	DarkHorizon999
Upvotes	3
Comments	24
Date	February 24, 2022 9:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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