Attracting women feels like trying to learn advanced calculus.

There are so many formulas and techniques to memorize that you become swallowed in a sea of information.

Today, I will turn that ocean into a 2ft deep pond for you.

Instead of calculus, pickup will be simple as learning basic addition.

Implement the following three tips, and YOU WILL start getting dates within the next month, I guarantee it.

 

1. Go out every day

 

If you want to get good at something, do it every day.

This applies to dating as much as anything else.

A type of magic happens when you habitually leave the house to talk to girls daily.

On the first day, going out is more stressful than fun.

On the fifteenth day, you actually look forward to approaching women.

On the 30th day, your friends will ask how you got to be so confident and how you're getting so many dates. People will be jealous of the positive energy you emanate.

I'm not just making that up, I've gone out for 30 days straight in the past, and every time I did, people started to ask how I got to be so charismatic.

Even better, I also started dating incredibly beautiful women who I previously thought were 'out of my league'.

You could focus on watching a bunch of content and learning theory for the next five years.

But if you really want to get good, the secret is consistent action.

I know you probably think that every day sounds unsustainable.

You don't need to go out for 3 hours a day; just make a goal to go out at least 30 minutes per day.

You probably spend that much time on P***hub anyway; cut that out of your life and replace it with real human interactions.

Alternatively, you can cut your daily Netflix use from 4 hours to 3.

(the average American literally watches TV 4 hours a day).

Cut out a bit of the fat in your daily schedule, and you'll have plenty of time.

If you're serious about getting dates, you need to have a ruthless attitude rather than a soft one.

Be willing to get out of your comfort zone.

Don't do what your emotions want you to do; make a commitment to do whatever will get you results—even if there's a sacrifice involved.

Go out every day, and your results will skyrocket, I guarantee it.

 

2. Make your intentions clear

 

Most guys learning pickup are afraid to let women know what they want. This is a huge turnoff. It's duplicitous.

You think you're being polite by acting friendly.

But if you're talking to a girl because you like her, she can't respect you unless you're honest with your intentions.

Put your ego on the line.

Tell her that you think she's attractive.

Give her the opportunity to reject you or to reciprocate your interest.

The problem with indirect game is that it's easy to have a 30-minute conversation until her boyfriend comes in, and she says, "It was nice meeting you."

When you go direct, you do get more rejections.

But you also get more enthusiastically positive responses where it's clearly 'on'.

And it's easier to move things forward when you know that the girl knows you're hitting on her. You have permission to be fully authentic.

And this starts with statements of intent. It can be simple as, "Hi, I'm X. You're very beautiful."

You can see some examples of myself using direct game in this video: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGukNgmqsuk)

 

3. Go for the pull

 

Women will rarely bring you home with them.

Seduction is a dance, and most girls expect you to take the lead.

If you don't, they'll assume you're either not interested or a huge pussy.

Here's a simple but crucial question for you.

Answer this honestly, "How many women have you invited to come back to your place in the last month?"

For most people reading this, the answer is zero.

There's a very good chance that your answer to that question is the primary reason you're not getting laid.

If you haven't approached any women, that explains your answer, and you need to start by going out more.

But if you have been talking to girls, and you still haven't invited any home, make a habit of doing so whenever a woman seems to like you.

There's nothing offensive about saying, "Hey, let's go smoke back at my place." Or, "Would you like to watch an episode of Mad Men?"

In many cases, that sentence is the only thing between you and a memory that'll last you for a lifetime.

Maybe even a relationship.

Conclusion There you have it—that's everything you need to know to start getting dates in the next month, even if you're currently struggling.

Yes, you have to get out of your comfort zone to get results.

But going out and meeting women turns life into an adventure. Instead of passively watching movies at home, your life becomes a movie.

Just make sure you follow the above steps—if you do, you'll have incredible successes.