Think about it - you're having to convince someone that you're worth fucking - that you're worth the social connotations, emotional investment and physical risks. It's not a small thing.

To be engaged in a fast paced conversation whilst calibrating your words and your moves to maximise your appeal seems to take an extremely high level of social awareness, tact, wit and panache.

No wonder the dim witted socially anxious 18 year old finds it difficult to pull women outside of drunk house parties and similar contexts.

That's why I'm always stunned when I meet guys who supposedly do well with women and realise that they're actually kind of thick headed, pushy and not very witty or charming or anything as you would expect.

But then I have to remind myself that It's not always this difficult, sometimes being good looking and being present is all it takes - mother nature is on your side after all. Some girls aren't as selective about who they sleep with. Some girls don't mind when a guy is a bit goofy because it makes things feel more genuine.

However to be truly skilled at attracting women would seem to require you to have god level social skills.

I think most people struggling would benefit more from improv classes or something that improves their overall social skills, not memorising how to respond to a shit test or some specific bit of advice.

Agree or disagree?