How do I text girls?

bengalibeonit · 2021-11-23T12:11:03+00:00

Texting ain’t your strong suit, don’t rely on it.

Use it as a means to and end, a method of getting you two together on a date for example or setting up a link over at your house or her house,

never be a text buddy If you’re gonna text, be concise: say more with less words Not every text needs a reply

boycott-mondays · 2021-11-23T12:17:30+00:00

Ask her what she is doing Saturday night, say you going to this (random place, in your area), that's is really cool and you want her to come. But other than that, that's it.

Text her the same amount you would text your guy friends.

Do you text your guy friends everyday?

dollymay18 · 2021-11-23T21:18:36+00:00

Honestly calling her on the phone makes you look very mature, just stick to your confidence and don’t let her lack of confidence over you not wanting to text her 24/7 get in the way. Good luck! xx

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-11-23T12:29:09+00:00

Use IG to text, easier to start conversations based on stories they post.

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2021-11-23T14:21:08+00:00

ummmm. text her? even a simple "Hi what's up?" or the old "You up?" make the effort man.

Beansnmilk · 2021-11-23T13:43:50+00:00

Since you have made such good improvement in a relatively short time, I'd like you to share some things that you think were the most impactful for your success with girls L. And good luck with this chick!

2021-11-23T20:52:48+00:00

Hey, Ive had the same issue for a while now while I was/am dating multiple girls.

I’ll tell you what I learned. At first I was fucking impatient. Impatient = texting a lot, wanting to do so many dates as possible, being scared she’ll be with someone else if I don’t lock her in immediately.

I also had a girl say „you don’t text much“. But that’s actually a fucking trap. Don’t start texting her more then. Texting with a girl will increase over time if you get to know each other better. But especially in the beginning, you have to learn to be patient. Mostly women that dig you and want more from you will reach out. Not annoying them with bullshit texts will actually have her think more about you and you will differentiate yourself from all the other dudes that blow up her phone.

She will not forget you or like you less when you will have set up a date. I also only mostly set up a date and then either she will text and ask questions and I will answer, but then I will go back to being busy, doing my own thing. She will be excited to see you and you guys will have more to talk about. Don’t deliberately ignore her text unless it’s something really not worth answering.

Think about it this way. Why are you blowing up her phone and pretending her to be your girlfriend if you guys aren’t together yet? She’s just a girl you’re seeing so don’t treat her more special. Just treat her normal and over time when you guys get closer you will actually invest more in her.

Even after dates, take your time. But also, don’t think too much about it, because otherwise she will think you’re playing games on purpose and that’s not so good either.

Cheers and good luck!

rickmackdaddy · 2021-11-23T12:19:21+00:00

Texting is a tool to setup the date.

nosplashback · 2021-11-23T17:51:07+00:00

Only, and I mean only, text her photos of your genitals.

S0GGYS4L4DS · 2021-11-23T20:46:50+00:00

I always mess this one up lol by texting too much. I guess most girls only want to receive texts projecting towards a date. Also not often, and not right away as that’s what usually gets me ghosted.

golden_elegante · 2021-11-23T21:18:50+00:00

Yo bro I guess you need to slow down with this texting BS. Take this time and energy to do something more important for yourself. I was like you but thinking in how to bring topics to the table but right now I'm really don't care if a gurl text me. Just use the tool to make a date and thats it.

valisglans · 2021-11-23T17:26:52+00:00

There’s something to maintaining some mystery around yourself, and controlling when you can and cannot be reached. Puts you in control.

peppacantresistblake · 2021-11-23T18:20:08+00:00

with the keyboard on your phone

Jamesdoink · 2021-11-23T14:42:40+00:00

With your phone 🤔🤷😂

JackTheRipper_17 · 2021-11-23T15:34:02+00:00

Call her 2-3 times a week at nights. (not more than that)

AddictedDepression · 2021-11-24T01:31:06+00:00

You’re a bad texter then you’re a bad texter, don’t let her manipulate and control you on when and how to text. If it’s a communication style then you both need to talk about communication styles and how to keep each other updated and in touch. What works for the BOTH of you. She’s a part time model so don’t be a fan and think with your brain not head.

She’s mad as in Did she throw a tantrum? Don’t feed into it. Keep your composure and approach this dilemma with research and structure.

cormacru999 · 2021-11-24T02:03:09+00:00

I'm not sure I understand what a texter is? texting is an action, an action that is communication BY text. You don't need a special skill to do it, other than basic communication. As long as you can communicate, you can text. Its a lot like writing a letter, just a slightly different medium.

I don't text, but a woman recently hit me up on a dating site & we've been texting every day since, because its the same as writing an email, or talking.

amp_payo · 2021-11-24T03:11:25+00:00

Keep it straight forward. Ex: “hey, do you wanna go to?…” . THATS IT. Input=output.

garycropper · 2021-11-24T03:23:47+00:00

I use my fingers. Works every time.

Title	How do I text girls?
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Date	November 23, 2021 10:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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