Why I lose interest too fast?

wallynext · 2021-10-25T15:36:38+00:00

Because you don’t form deep connections, only superficial ones, when you are connected you don’t lose interest unless something bad happens

Shadow__Account · 2021-10-25T15:00:24+00:00

Rejecting them before the possibility is there that they can potentially reject you?

Cascadiana88 · 2021-10-25T18:52:11+00:00

Because you’re dating “good girls” instead of magnificent women. The fact of the matter is that the truly magnificent women who really are worth serious commitment are few and far between. But, they are out there. If you’re serious about wanting to be in a committed long term relationship don’t settle for less.

ksmith11011 · 2021-10-25T14:29:45+00:00

That’s how women date. Totally at the whim of their short term emotions, which means no agency over their own romantic choices as a result.

2 possible solutions here.

Either you learn to make decisions about your romantic life and stand by them. OR someday you’ll meet a woman who pushes all the right emotional buttons and you’ll get hooked on her because she always seems to be a challenge.

Your choice.

norwegiandoggo · 2021-10-25T12:51:06+00:00

You find out something about them that makes you lose interest. What is this "something"?

fungodpl · 2021-10-25T21:32:14+00:00

I have the same problem. Maybe it's your country? Where u from?

DryAdhesiveness6579 · 2021-10-25T23:01:39+00:00

Curious as to how old you are ?

I did this through my twenties, no issue getting women but I would see them for ~2 months. Then basically get bored, didn’t feel like a fit for me so I would reject them.

However i would still come across a few woman that i would meet and want to date. I am just extremely selective with who i choose to date and there is nothing wrong with that, if you can be selective.

Eventually you’ll find someone who is actually a goodfit for your lifestyle, but you should probably figure out why you are dating in the first place.

Is it for fun, companionship, partnership, sex, all of those things ?

Maybe define some reasons for dating ?

I’m seeing someone know because I’m looking to form a partnership and this woman adds to my life.

Title	Why I lose interest too fast?
Author	harvey_croat
Upvotes	16
Comments	17
Date	October 25, 2021 12:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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