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AvocadoCatnip · 2021-10-19T18:09:10+00:00

she matched your energy. Your text sort of sounded hopeless.

justmuro · 2021-10-19T16:17:06+00:00

So I found a little secret for myself when I get shit tested. When u recognize it just smile and turn it back on her. Pressure flipping is fun for everyone. Literally any response where you aren’t taking her overly serious.

For this test specifically she gave me an answer that annoys me so I’d ignore the fuck out of her personally. Her mentioning other guys is a shit test to see how you react. You only got shit shitty text because you have her control of this conversation and her meeting u by asking her a question.

Extra tip: “When am I seeing you again?” Is like asking for sex if it’s a friends with benefits. Just say need another taste, get ready for Friday afternoon. Then she can respond with a serious answer to a man who knows what he wants

Contango6969 · 2021-10-19T19:47:16+00:00

wHen aM I gOInG tO sEe u aGain???

lol just never say something like that again. I would say something like "ill be busy for the next x days but i might hit you up xday". She should then say if she is free x day or what her plans are.

But the rule of thumb for shit tests that I believe in whole heartedly is to either ignore or "agree and amplify". In this case she isnt really making a solid statement you can riff off of so just ignore it.

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2021-10-19T17:23:06+00:00

Yeah don’t ever say “when Am I going to see you again” that’s weak and passive. If you want to see her then you need to be clear with your intentions and tell her to come over.

You’re clearly fwb. Who cares if you’re both fucking other people. The people who are easily bothered by this don’t get laid. There’s no emotions in fwb.

You can reply with something like:

“Really the same line? Damn those guys are lazy. I thought they would have tried harder for you than that”

A lot is going on here.

She may feel now that she has to validate that men DO try hard for her.

You show that you don’t feel like you have to try hard for her.

You show you don’t care that she talks about other guys.

It’s funny because you call them lazy for using the same exact line you used.

nortrebyc · 2021-10-19T21:32:11+00:00

Lol don’t ever say this. That’s how you deal with them. You gave her all of the power. Sounds like she’s got a string of passive guys lined up.

dobbs1997 · 2021-10-19T21:22:19+00:00

weak ass text you sent so she treated you accordingly, be firm with what you want, man. As for the text she sent you back, if you have imessage you can react to messages so i’d just put the thumbs up thing or the heart or the haha, or just leave her on Read

NerdKR · 2021-10-19T22:21:01+00:00

Yeah like everyone else said, that was a weak text. If you're already fucking, flirt it up, then say you can't help it anymore and you're gonna fuck her brains out.

Personally when I know it's in the bag I'm just ultra aggressive. If I somehow got a text like that (basically calling you out on your weak frame), I'd reply something like, 'You know what? How about I fuck you sideways on the counter this Friday night? I'll even rent a wheelchair for you from the children's hospital.'

2021-10-20T05:31:53+00:00

Translated by a woman:

“Be advised that there are sooooo many other men who want me in addition to you. And since I’m a non-thirsty 10/10, I plan to laze about while you all bend over backwards vying for my attention. If you spend enough time and money (especially money), I may agree to see you again—at least until someone I’m actually super into comes along, and then you’ll never hear from me again, even if he treats me like dogshit because oops sorry I’m actually an insecure, immature wreck.”

You deserve better than someone with a seventh-grade approach to dating.

Professional2022 · 2021-10-19T15:54:54+00:00

Probably a test. Idk how to pass, this would turn me off. Red flag.

Hot_Funny6531 · 2021-10-19T16:21:23+00:00

I wouldn’t even respond. On to the next

wallynext · 2021-10-19T16:31:58+00:00

Thats disrespectful, don’t respond.

Sultmaker_9000 · 2021-10-19T18:45:51+00:00

Top poster already answered, don't and never ask when you're going to see them next. Women follow you, never the other way around. This frame is weak sauce.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-19T22:10:37+00:00

“You are such a shameless player”

ContWord2346 · 2021-10-20T02:33:44+00:00

Anyone have a resource for shit tests? Is it Pook?

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