Guys dating multiple females what do you tell them?

hunterpua · 2021-10-19T06:32:41+00:00

You can still set it up well after having sex but ideally you want to let them know before having sex.

The best way to do it is by not making it about what you want from her but by just telling her how you've decided to carry out your dating life.

You can start by making general conversation about dating and relationships, sharing stuff with each other around those topics so you can smoothly transition into telling her how you've decided to be polyamorous and prefer to date multiple women at the same time.

It also helps if you know the proper way to flirt and approach your interactions with women this way rather than aggressively pursuing them so you can make her want to be with you without having to keep chasing her otherwise it'll look like you're asking her to be poly with you and that might put a lot more pressure on her.

Better to flirt rather than hit on her so that you and the girls you meet come together, rather than having the girl sit there passively while you make all the moves to get something going with her.

The more active her role in getting involved with you, the more it'll be clear in her mind that she's getting into a polyamorous relationship through her own free will.

You can get into a polyamorous relationship while being the only one pursuing something while she just sits and decides whether she'll have you or not and legally you can argue that if she agrees to the set up without any duress she's doing so out of her own free will but emotions don't coincide with what's legally correct and doing that will more likely than not lead to issues down the line.

You can't negotiate feelings.

So you'll be a lot better off getting her to put in a meaningful amount of effort to get with you, at least as much as the effort you're putting in, so that being in a relationship where you sleep with other people really sinks in for her.

You can even challenge her when she already claims she's down for that kind of relationship with you and if you keep at this for a while you're likely to find yourself naturally challenging other women you meet down the line because you will learn that sometimes people agree to something before really understanding what they're getting themselves into so you wanna make sure they really get it before letting them in to avoid any issues.

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GarlicTraditional227 · 2021-10-19T05:05:42+00:00

I tell them a relationship isn’t off the table for me but right now I want to take things slow. I don’t let them hustle me no matter what. I basically dangle the dog treat in front of them but after a while if they keep annoying me about it they start to notice they get left on read. Then once we see each other again I let her know she was stressing me out and I didn’t like that. Then she gives me make up fuck. And we continue on

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-10-19T05:11:37+00:00

I'm polyamorous, so I just tell them up front.

007upyours · 2021-10-19T05:25:13+00:00

You don’t have to lead anyone on. When it comes to communication the only time you should be using a phone to contact a woman you’re interested in is to set up a date. Save the conversation for the date. Don’t over text or talk on the phone, save that stuff for your date. If they ask if you’re seeing anyone else then tell them you’re not seeing anyone seriously. They don’t need to know details and you don’t have to give any of them false hope. You don’t have to share every detail of your life either. They like mysterious. Always keep the conversation on them. When they figure you out it’s over unless you givin good D.

coindad007 · 2021-10-19T08:07:02+00:00

Tell them the truth I’m dating few women they all know about eachother

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-19T06:42:28+00:00

Well, you begin by not calling them bitches or any other derogatory name.

Good-Phrase · 2021-10-19T05:11:54+00:00

They probably say “ I’m not ready for anything serious right now” or “yeah I’m dating other girls but you’re my favourite ;)” just to give them enough hope that it might just work out the way they hoped. Really sadistic stuff. I would say just have sex with women you actually enjoy the company of. Don’t have sex just to say how many girls you’ve banged. In my opinion a guy that has multiple females on the go either has way too much free time on his hands or is forfeiting his standards for at least one of them just to have a quick bang without any empathy for the other person involved. Keep being truthful as you are, eventually you’ll meet a girl who’s down for just sex too maybe you’ll catch feelings then haha.

MisterShogunate · 2021-10-19T06:41:33+00:00

"I don't do relationships." Most of them stay and even if they don't it's not worth the hassle tricking some chick into sleeping with you when she keys your car at 3AM in the morning.

No-Historian-6391 · 2021-10-19T13:49:59+00:00

Tell them nothing

Title	Guys dating multiple females what do you tell them?
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Date	October 19, 2021 5:01 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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