I’ve always been against the idea of lowering standard even if it means being dry and alone long term - I don’t even like the idea of casual sex with someone I’m not completely into - the thought of having sex with someone I’m not really into has always struck me as not just pointless but a bit disgusting

I’ve had a lot of dates in the last year or two and taken it further with any (relationship or sexual in most cases) which I wouldn’t say I regret but also… maybe I’ve deprived myself of some fun and also left myself feeling pretty rusty because I haven’t slept with anyone in a while which is affecting the confidence toward people I am into.

What’s your take on it?