How to handle logistics a week in advance?

Therocksays2020 · 2021-09-18T00:53:50+00:00

Agree with the other poster. You hope for the best but if she loses interest there’s not much you can do.

Momentum is helpful in dating.

5_7pickup · 2021-09-18T00:51:49+00:00

Nothing. If she likes you then she will make time. If she doesnt then she might flake.

Your influence over her drastically decreases once you move the interaction to text. Your best chance was to make the best impression IRL.

If this was OLD then you can make quick 20 minute phone calls per day and text less. Only use text to establish logistics. If you want to bond via phone then use phone call but only 30 minutes max.

Hmmoklolthisisfine · 2021-09-18T09:19:36+00:00

I’m busy and I always do a week in advance. I usually have a date planned for the upcoming weekend so any new girls I’m talking to I tell them I’m busy but I have next weekend open.

How do you keep her from flaking? Do something more fun than coffee lol or give her a reason to want to meet up. What sets you apart from the other 50 dudes asking her for a coffee date? Don’t mean to be harsh, I’m just not a fan of boring dates but I’m here to support you!

let’s work with what you got going.

First of all never send a text saying let’s set up a time together. You make the plans. If she doesn’t fit your schedule, oh well. Move on. Be assertive with your decisions and tell her a time, date, place. (I did today and the girl said “ooooo I love a man that can plan 😍) she doesn’t want to solve a puzzle with you on where to go together. Be the leader.

If I were you I would say I’m busy this Saturday with (hopefully something interesting or important you’ll be doing. Keep it short) but let’s grab a coffee next (specific date, not weekend. Leave the guessing games out) at (interesting coffee shop)

She will respond yes or no.

If she says no then you drop it. Don’t chase. Don’t pry. You don’t care why she is busy. Just say no worries I’ll catch you another time. Then give it a few weeks before your shoot another shot.

If she says yes then awesome! Respond with some enthusiasm about the date. Like “ they have the best (good coffee you like), you’re gonna love it!”

She will respond and then leave it on read. Respond the next day. If she’s super into texting then respond. But if she has a busy life as you should too then don’t go chasing after her with small talk messages to keep conversations going. You will look either boring or needy

The day before the date hit her with “hey let’s meet here tomorrow at (time)” and send her the map location

That’s it man. Know your value. Don’t chase. You’re in total control.

Good luck!

MisterShogunate · 2021-09-18T01:56:49+00:00

I only do week ahead schedules for women with a track record of being reliable. You can't expect new girls to not flake if they barely know you. For girls that i just met I either schedule it the next day or two or I just do a spontaneous thing.

What you can do is set a tentative schedule, but let her know that it could change and you'll confirm the day before to check her temperature which is essentially a next day schedule.

You sound like a busy guy with a life. You can only try to work with someone as much as you can. The best way forward is to expect mutual respect of each other's time and tell her to go fuck herself if she can't act like an adult.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-09-18T09:18:23+00:00

Yeah change your schedule and life for 30 min coffee date with a girl you ain't even fucking. Real smart move Casanova.

BounceThatShit · 2021-09-18T11:21:54+00:00

If you cant meet up this week, say next weekend or whatever but you HAVE to call/FaceTime her. This keeps them interested, texting gets boring, especially when you’re forcing it until you meet.

Title	How to handle logistics a week in advance?
Author	RealHumanBeing2020
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	September 18, 2021 12:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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