Stats

Age: 27

Race: Eastern Asian

Height: 5'7

Profession: Something prestigious (IE: lawyer, investment banker, FAANG tech, doctor)

Location: Las Vegas

Preface: I went to an EDM festival in Vegas this weekend with my cousin and her friends. My goal was to run game for maybe 50% of the time and do festival shit the other 50% of the time with the people I went with. I'm just gonna write out the sets that stood out the most.

Sets:

  1. two asian girls standing on the outer area of the crowd. I got a beer and approached immediately. They were hooked and I started doing cold reading and making statements. I engaged both girls and tried to get one of the guys I came with to wing me but he wasn't down. I kept talking to both but flirting with the girl I'm interested more. Physical escalation was incremental and gradual. There was no tensing up or resistance which told me she's into me. Not much verbal escalation. We just talked about the favorite EDM artist and such or where we're from. I did alot of this multiple choice verbal technique with this girl (read below for explanation). Anyways so we're chatting and then all of a sudden a some friends that I didn't come with approached me one by one. These friends came with their own group and several of them came up to me one by one and were all excited and gave me a hug (girls and guys). This is good because it established tremendous amounts of social proof. After the 4th friend coming up to me, the asian girl said "oh wow you're quite popular arent you". So I continue to talk to her more and then escalated physically more. I did the twirl move I think. I put out my hand and she reached for it and then I pulled her closer to me and put her arm around me. Then we started making out. We made out for a bit. Her friend was just next to us dancing lol, kinda awkward. I should have found her friend a guy. Anyways so at this point, I decided to move on to new sets because there's no way I could pull her: she has a solo friend she's with, they wanted to see the main DJ who comes on last, and I'm with a group too. So I just got her number and bailed.
    - Okay so this set isn't done yet. I go do my thing, meet more girls, make out with another girl, hang out with my friends. Now the last DJ comes on and I get a text from the asian girl in Set 1. She text me "where you at". I found her again for the last DJ. It was lit. We were dancing and making out for like the 45 minutes. I really liked the DJ too. After the rave ends, she said she has to go. I tried to pull but failed. Maybe I should have tried harder and been more persistent but there was alot of logistical problems.
    - Whenever girls ask me anything about myself, I tell them to guess, I never answer the question. If they guess wrong, I do this thing multiple choice thing where I give them 4 options and they have to pick the right one (it's like a game and it's engaging and it makes her work for you more). If they guess wrong again, depending on how the interaction is going, I would say "ok i'll give you one more chance and if you guess wrong you have to kiss me". It works sometimes but I don't always use this because it has to be well calibrated aka the girl has to be already into you.
  2. Filipino girl by herself. I approached and start flirting. My verbal escalation was much better for this girl. I established premise without showing much intent or giving my power away. She's here for the last the DJ as well. She wasn't really receptive towards my physical escalation at first. She seemed shy so I backed off. Last DJ came on and I took her into the crowd. We're dancing and now she's receptive towards my physical escalation. We start making out and dancing. I get a text from the asian girl in set 1. I told the Filipino girl that I gotta go find my friends and I got her number and exited the set to meet the asian girl from set 1.
  3. Filipino girl at a nightclub (this is a different day). Her and her friends have a table. I approach and pretty much just talked to the Filipino girl. This is where I massively fucked up. Where the hell are my manners? I didn't group manage at all. I'm escalating verbally with this girl. I told her let's go into the pool. We went into the pool and I tried to escalate physically more. I signal her to come closer to me and then I put my hand out, she grabs my hand and I gently pull her closer to me. I'm not even trying to kiss her at this point because I could tell it's not gonna work based on my calibration. I'm just trying to dance with her in the pool. She tells me "i can't, my friends are gonna think Im slutty" while giggly. We're in the pool a bit and then she says she has to go back to the table. We're talking at the table a little bit. Her friends are dragging her to the restroom. I told her to give me her number before she goes and she did.
    - So after getting her number, I proceeded to talking with other girls. I met this Asian guy who's also doing solo pickup which was really cool. We chat and approach girls. I bumped into the girl from set 3 again. Chatted with her a bit. Her friends were not about me (my fault, I fucked up group management). Before leaving her for a second time, I told her "ok give me a kiss before I leave you again". She said "omg I can't but I'll kiss you on the cheek. So she kissed me on both cheeks and I left to meet up with my wing. I see her a third time later on while I was talking to this latin girl. She's walking by with her entourage of girls and I point at her as she's walking by. She says "text me tomorrow, text me".

So rave gaming is interesting. I think it's actually very difficult to pull at festivals. The reason is because most people come in groups and they are sticking to those groups no matter what. Majority of the girls I approached had BFs. Almost everybody is going to stay til the end to see the main DJ who comes on last. Oh yeah, fucking molly. Hella girls rolling. I don't like to game on girls who are rolling because I don't wanna mess up their trip. Overall, I had a great fucking time. Saw hella friends there and even bump into some high school friends. Hung out with my cousin and her friends. It was lit.

As always, pick up related feedback is appreciated.