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Festeral · 2021-09-07T23:09:15+00:00

there’s a difference between push-pull and being a dick. you could have handled that situation with a little more grace

aloofLogic · 2021-09-07T22:01:20+00:00

She sent you a nude pic and you didn’t respond? You definitely gave out the vibe that you’re not interested.

Also, if she’s vegetarian, your comment about going to a non vegetarian place was rude, dismissive, and disrespectful. That’s why she didn’t respond.

She’s keeping it cool with you but she’s losing interest.

ruoffcampusthrowaway · 2021-09-08T01:05:31+00:00

Dude, get the fuck over it already. We all make mistakes and say stupid things. It’s part of learning.

That said, the fatal blow here is that you ignored her nude. Why in the fuck would you do that?! So what, you were “out late”… what kind of bullshit excuse is that?

I think it’s safe to say she’s losing interest, or has already lost interest entirely.

I’m sorry but at least you’ve learned from this.

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2021-09-08T01:07:45+00:00

Yall be having problems I wish i could have. Shes clearly still willing to hang out. Make up your mind about where you want it to go.and start taking steps to get it going in that direction.

ariablake69 · 2021-09-08T01:51:23+00:00

Are you ten years old? What’s with all the texting games?… just text her when you want to who cares and if you get the vibes she’s not interested go onto the next bitch

hh7139 · 2021-09-07T21:58:12+00:00

Telling a vegetarian “only if you agree too eat non vegetarian food” is probably a huge turn off dude. Think about it, most people who become vegetarian do so cause of very personal reasons, and you are basically shutting her down by saying that. She wants someone who’s interested in her lifestyle, not someone who will bash it. Just my 2 cents.

El_Marlin · 2021-09-07T23:34:50+00:00

Lol poking fun of a vegan/vegetarian to eat animal products is the oldest joke in the book. Don't try it.

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-09-08T01:28:29+00:00

Naa you're doing okay my dude, woman are used to get men who are pleasers, when in reality what they want is a challenge, she sent you not one but two pics, you ignored them and she still talking to you, so dont worry, keep playing the game

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069reasonswhy · 2021-09-08T03:27:17+00:00

You just basically fucked your chances man! It’s good to be really express yourself to her, letting her know what it looks like to be with you. While we shouldn’t change for ourselves for the others. But you should be willing to compromise yourself for both parties And able to bend reasonably for her benefit. Rather than a mindset of seeking to change for a person, it’s a more of seeking a meaningful selfless relationship. It’s a give and take, A 69! That will be part of the constant growth once established. Who knew? It might able to benefit your life in the long run from eating all those kind junk crap. And that vegetarian thing, basically ruined your chances. Time to set aside your ego and use your heart. Stop being so stubborn.

WeRAllOnThisBlessedD · 2021-09-08T00:20:28+00:00

Stop overthinking it. If she ignores your texts then you should assume 1) you are not her priority and 2) she’s texting some other dude. If she’s actually interested in seeing you, you would know. Women will move heaven and earth to be near the guy she’s interested in. Maybe don’t cut her off completely, but definitely put her on the back burner.

HammertonMili · 2021-09-08T05:20:36+00:00

I find some of the comments here kinda funny on how on it banks that you're doing way too less, or reacting too less (not responding to her texts, nudes, etc..). General trend here is that her interest seemed to have dropped by a few numbers. One thing I can agree is that the Vegetarian joke could have been said a little better (or could have come off as a joke instead) rather than in an imperative node. Which might have turned her off a bit.

At this point in time, just wait for HER to text get back to you. You worrying about when she'll text back or not is none of your business now. She's not to keen for you. There was a post here about how dating was likened to poker and all that, and it's best for you to move on

LouFromStockton · 2021-09-08T05:55:49+00:00

For now I would chill Make her think about whether you’re too klingy. ‘Why isn’t this dude throwing his cock at me anymore?’ If she sends you another pic or reaches out to you make definite plans. if you don’t hear from her after a couple of days call her ass. ask what her weekend looks like and invite her to kick it. Rinse wash repeat

everyth1ngscopacetic · 2021-09-08T07:26:38+00:00

Ya I’m with the gentleman that says your ok. So what she sent a nude? What if you weren’t the only one that got it? You wanted to hang out, she bailed. Pretty much not willing to drop What she’s got going on, and instead of seeing her sooner she says maybe next weekend. If I was that interested it would be sooner than later. She sees you going out and all of sudden she’s interested. It’s good you left it on read, till the next day. Too many simps willing to drop everything not holding to a better standard. You be honest.. I got tired from being out and went to bed. Keep playing the cool card and she what she does. Match energies so your not stuck feeling invested. If you want some closure sit her down for coffee or boba and say hey… I’m really interested, would you be open to the idea of dating seriously and not fucking other people. Otherwise your just as much on the back burner just as much as she put you in.

rabloespa · 2021-09-08T09:22:33+00:00

I think everyone overreacting i dont really blame you for what you did but man do NOT say that to a vegetarian they do not joke about that stuff lol

Revolutionary_Ad1846 · 2021-09-08T09:59:38+00:00

You didn’t respond to a nude which is EXTREMELY RUDE and probably made her feel like sh*t hence the pull away. No response to a nude hurts the equivalent to being stood up. YTA!

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