So I would say I’m above average in looks, 6’3 jacked frame Mediterranean with average face. But also pretty introverted and more of a thinker.

I have 2 buddies I love going out with, we’re really into the club scene in my city. They’re both Arabic, one is 6’3 and skinny, the other one 6’1 and really jacked. Also they have good faces. From the outside we’re all equally attractive.

But the big difference is their personality and confidence. They’re both extroverts with a big confidence, while I’m more of the shy type.

And indirectly, their presence cockblocks me because I can’t seem to get any girl while they’re around me. There have been multiple instances where I tried to chat up and dance with girls at the club, only for them to show more interest for my friends.

Of course we have our bro code, we don’t steal each other’s “crushes” at parties. But I get the feeling they could easily get my targets if they wanted to.

So this situation leaves me a bit conflicted. Of course I’m admirative for them and happy for them to have such game, but at the same time I wish I could be as smooth as them.

I’m kinda good with girls one on one, such as Tinder dates (and I get plenty of matches thanks to my looks). But as soon as it’s a social event (party, club), I rarely ever get opportunities.

How can I proceed from this?