I don't want anyone having the power to control my emotions like this.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-17T22:50:09+00:00

if this girl is more of a negative in your life than positive - drop her.

BeASimpleWinner · 2021-07-17T23:10:33+00:00

Definitely experienced women like this. Usually they were unaware they were being cruel. A few were actually trying to be hurtful, and it's usually these women who have serious issues and are very hurt themselves.

In my experience, most women are not like this. So my advice is to keep meeting more and more women, eventually you'll meet some who will be emotionally healthy and also interested in you.

maplemario · 2021-07-17T23:30:54+00:00

Sorry, but she sounds insecure and like a total dick if she’s telling you shit like he was even bigger than you are. Cut it off and let her grow up before you rekindle anything with her. She should know better than to talk like that to a guy, that’s just basic understanding of a man’s mind. That’s not negging or fun, it’s pretty shitty. You wouldn’t say the same thing to a woman about melting into another girl’s ass that was bigger than hers for example, for the same reason. I don’t think there’s anything to debate here.

The only other thing I would say is if you want to continue it, as tacky as this is, you might have to show her who’s boss next time she says something like that. Do something to shut her up. If she likes it, you’re golden because the power dynamic will feed your self esteem. If she doesn’t, then it probably ends anyway. Basic polarization. Make it worthwhile for you or leave.

BonjourComeBack · 2021-07-17T22:58:55+00:00

If you do not enjoy Booking up, why not working on your purpose and dropping her as thé relationship does not seem healthy? Plus you don't have to listen to her hookup stories.

Intrepid_Curve6494 · 2021-07-18T00:15:21+00:00

6 is huge.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-07-18T02:08:35+00:00

She sounds poisonous so I’d cut the bitch out ASAP

Intrepid_Curve6494 · 2021-07-18T02:18:12+00:00

I wish I was 6

Title	I don't want anyone having the power to control my emotions like this.
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Date	July 17, 2021 10:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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