Guys what is a massive turn off from girls?

jenj11 · 2021-07-13T14:56:46+00:00

Girls or people who think they know everything ….

To materialistic

Not being able to hold a conversation or acting the slightest bit interested in me

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Extreme feminist or minority victim mindsets

When they can’t just agree to disagree but have to be right lol there is quite a few mainly just don’t be a argumentative asshole and be kinda semi interesting and you’ll be fine 😂

Legitimate-Lies · 2021-07-13T23:08:11+00:00

-Any serious mental health issue (idc if you have adhd or like regular struggles. BPD? BP? Fuck no. Been there done that) -Serious drug use. I’ve experimented so I don’t really care but if you’re getting wrecked all the time, ew -I don’t want to hear about your ex -Yes I am a mechanic, no I will not fix your car for free -Entitlement. Confidence is good. The idea that you deserve things handed to you because you graced me with your pussy or presence does zero for me -insulting interests. Yeah, I get dirty. I fight for fun. I ride dirt bikes and play heavy metal. If you call me a hick, I’m not gonna call you again.

Everything else is situational. I’m avoidant so sometimes people just give me a bad vibe

double_prong · 2021-07-13T18:18:54+00:00

A girl who:

has to one-up me in everything
is too disagreeable
looks unhealthy
talks politics
insults men
makes demands of me (we just met!)
exhibits indicators of mental disorder
flakes
shows no interest in me

PrettyLittlePenguin · 2021-07-13T15:00:46+00:00

When she doesn't have a pulse.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-13T14:55:54+00:00

The #1 turn off to girls is lack of confidence.

69Gwynbleidd69 · 2021-07-13T19:42:28+00:00

-Third wave feminism / SJW / Extreme Leftist, Marxist, etc
-Attention seeking aka attention whore
-Materialistic
(I accept that girls won't date bums, and that is OK but there are levels.. it's OK to want a man who can take care of himself, has a career, etc, but if you have that 'must earn six figures', I'll pass even if I sometimes in life come to the point to earn them)
-Fat or obese
Sorry, I might not be a male fitness model, but I do crossfit 4-6 times a week, run OCR trails, dabble in some freeclimbing etc..you don't have to be perfectly built, victoria's angel, instagram model or fitness champion, but if you are overweight it's a no-go zone.
-Mental disorders
Everyone has problems, but if you have some serious mental issues, you need a therapist and to work on yourself, not a boyfriend.
-Drugs, cigarettes, extreme drinker
As I said I'm into sports, so.. few drinks are OK, I drink myself, but cigarettes and drugs are an automatic pass.

Ok_Influence_5342 · 2021-07-13T20:54:34+00:00

If we are talking about genuine turn-off's like there is nothing going on in my pants when we interact with each other then it's being too masculine and not feminine enough.

Lots of girls trying to be bro's and it's the biggest killer of attraction for me. I just need you to be feminine, let me lead the conversation, sound excited about what I tell you, laugh at my shit jokes, show you are interested but let me act on it. Basically do the best you can to allow me to be a man.

Ikeepdumpingthem · 2021-07-13T14:48:44+00:00

This was written so poorly.

gstwin89 · 2021-07-14T00:27:04+00:00

I'd say the biggest turnoffs for me is if she's late. Especially if she doesn't tell me in time that she's going to be late.

5 min is ok but if its more than 10 min, especially if she doesn't text, i just leave.

Also jealousy. I have friends, i have female friends. Don't try to restrict me seeing them because you feel insecure. That's your problem, not mine.

LadyCardigan90 · 2021-07-14T05:30:53+00:00

This intrigues me.

I'm 31F and went on a few dates.

I dress feminine but not overly ( flat shoes, fitted jeans, nice tops. No high heels, no skin tight dresses that show your ass off. ect).
I strength train- generally a bit musclier than slim women but definitely not fat).
I ride motorbikes/mountain bike/rockclimb/scuba dive/camping ect
I have a good job and investment portfolios. -i don't fake tan/fake eyelash/shorter hair, but do wear makeup.
I grew up with my brother, so tend to be more independent ( I catch cockroaches and moths and spiders and am generally low maintainence and often don't need help with things).
don't generally swear
I have been declined numerous second dates on the basis I am " too manly" or am often mistaken for a lesbian ( I mean that's cool). I consider myself adventurous and generally like to do fun things. But it's been a pattern unfortunately.

Can any guys out there confirm that this is a turn off ? I've been told by man friends that they want to feel "manly" and " needed" and that possibly I am not allowing that due to my self sufficiency.

Not that I'm going to change it but are " finer/feminine" women a better thing?

Title	Guys what is a massive turn off from girls?
Author	PrettyLardie
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	July 13, 2021 2:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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