Vulnerability is not being weak or soft, but rather being strong enough to deal with the consequences of exposing your true self, thoughts or feelings.

unlivedbread · 2021-06-11T13:39:05+00:00

When I cold approach I make a point of telling the truth, even if it means not getting the date or whatever. I find that it works insanely well. Women LOVE when a guy is just honest with them for once, instead of hiding who they really are in a bid to come off as manly. It's a huge relief to them and they love you for it.

hagakurejunkie · 2021-06-12T02:14:01+00:00

I think you have to play yourself naturally. If you're not naturally a vulnerable or emotional person, faking emotions is going to come off as strange.

(this is not to brag)

Example; I am 6'3", 250ish, heavily tattooed, beard, broad-shouldered, I've been in boxing and muay thai for years, was a bouncer blah blah blah. I've been told I walk around like I own the place but it's just because very few people try to start with me so I'm usually very relaxed. I'm also not very emotional, (hard childhood, nothing really surprises me anymore).

There are some women who are just not into me, they don't like my look at all. There are other women, that LOVE my look. They want to date the big scary guy, that's who they're into (I'm cool with that), these women are not into me talking about my feelings, they want the strong silent type. They don't like men who complain or cry at movies or whatever. That's not their style.

Now, what wouldn't work with these women is if I was trying to fake that I'm some big scary tough guy but I was secretly needy and cried at the drop of a hat. That would totally gross them out because I was being disingenous to myself.

All that being said, If you're an empathic guy who deeply cares about the well-being of humanity and animals, you would be doing yourself a HUGE disservice to the world by trying to act like someone like me.

HeavenPiercingMan · 2021-06-12T00:13:45+00:00

the mantra says "Screw up with confidence"

that_fire_girl · 2021-06-12T01:41:46+00:00

I like The title

Title	Vulnerability is not being weak or soft, but rather being strong enough to deal with the consequences of exposing your true self, thoughts or feelings.
Author	MK2718
Upvotes	93
Comments	11
Date	June 11, 2021 1:25 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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