Forget Routines and “Game”

NateHate1402 · 2021-06-08T17:11:08+00:00

I have a similar view.

Focus on a few overarching principles and forget about the rest of that shit it’s too technical and not natural.

-Don’t put her on a pedestal

-Escalate

-Work on yourself in terms of fitness, fashion, grooming, career and hobbies.

If you do this you will have success.

And before the “I’m not a model that is 6ft tall and rich it’s pointless” people arrive, let me say I’m 5’6, average looking and a student with not much money and I do fine.

Personal-Brain428 · 2021-06-08T17:50:21+00:00

Game does help but in all it’s just flirting

This! You're one of only a few people i've seen say this, but it's so true.

When you break down game (and i'm not talking about direct 'Hey you're cute' direct game) it's basically all flirting. Negs, teases, push-pull, self-amusement, kino, eye contact, breaking rapport, sexualising, various 'routines' etc etc etc etc

It's all just flirting!

Now, flirting is great, BUT it doesn't MAKE girl attracted to you (seduction). Nothing does! It's so crazy that people believe coaches who tell them you can get around a lack of physical attraction by doing this stuff - that a girl who doesn't think you're 'hot' at all will suddenly wanna rip your clothes off because you flirted with her lol

I also think when people say you'll get 'better' the more you approach, what they really mean is that you get more COMFORTABLE! (which will in turn improve your subcommunications and you won't come across super nervous etc)

But you don't get 'better' in that way you would at welding or gymnastics! (e.g a skill) because it really isn't one. There's a whole other person involved. She basically makes her mind up as to whether you are a sexual option for her before you say a word. You simply don't have the control necessary

Good post - just get out there and try your luck. Approach consistently, and you'll probably have some fun stories in time

paddywacknack · 2021-06-08T23:43:36+00:00

Do people still do routines?

NakedlyStripped · 2021-06-09T04:15:27+00:00

Thank God someone said this. So many dudes try to make pickup their life and identity that they lose sight of their REAL self.

SouthTelephone6996 · 2021-06-09T05:46:35+00:00

Dude, this is so true. I tell some fellow PUAs about this and they laugh at it. Infact a few days ago only, I put up a post on the same theme and some weird douchebag started making fun of me. I figured this guy is new in the game and enjoying the initial attention women are giving him.

I genuinely feel that after a point of time, you don't even have to remember the game. Just forget everything and be. That's all, just fucking be. Things will naturally come to you. Although a lot of this I understood from 'The Blueprint' by Tyler Durden. Actually you know what, I feel any aspiring PUA should just read everything that is there on the subject. Read atleast for a good year or two. That's what I did, I fucking love girls, so I read everything there was on this subject, made notes and shit. But then, once you've read everything, then forget it. Then don't get into the details.

This is how our brains work to find any solution. Just bombard your brain with all the knowledge there is and then don't even look for the solution, it will come to you. Your subconscious will take all that information and give you structured solutions to real life problems.

This is why I feel that what you've written my friend, is only true once an aspiring PUA has read about the stuff. This advice won't be understood to a newbie because he's too new in the game. Read, read and read, my friends, and then forget it, and then you'll develop a new natural game. A game that is congruent to your personality, I don't have to be even mean or neg anymore, I'm actually a nice guy now who gets laid.

NeroDaHero · 2021-06-10T01:52:42+00:00

Only bait hook reel release if you're a fisherman lol best fun pickup line is "You kinda look like...Donald Trump" it's just so funny to me and they all take the bait. The pause and anticipation, is very important. 3/10 "FUCK YOU!!!...arm punch" remember to smile though or you might get a drink shower lmfao I even use this one to make guy friends...guys almost always laugh at that one. Add to every ones good time, and you'll be having fun...that's real value.

Title	Forget Routines and “Game”
Author	IcarusBane1
Upvotes	70
Comments	14
Date	June 8, 2021 4:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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