The passion of seducing any girl you want.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2021-06-06T04:32:46+00:00

Even humans get tired of pleasure and long for something more, something with more meaning. As humans we strive each day of our lives to matter to have a purpose. I'll tell you now that whatever you chase won't fill that hole. No matter how many conquests you notch what you truly crave is to be connected to someone who understands you better than you know yourself. I've had many flings, conquests and illicit encounters, all with smoking hot bodies, but i'd trade all that in for someone who makes me happy just being alive and in their presence. You see, i'm the person you become after you've lived a life of sexual bliss. You want what really matters; to spend your life with someone who keeps you happy. If you want to fuck then fuck. If you want to get married and start a family then do it. When all that is said and done, make sure the person you end your life with is someone who makes you laugh and feel great about yourself and is more important than a few fleeting moments of unmemorable pleasure; that shit fades. Sex fades, seek happiness. Carry on my dudes.

OldRetiredDood · 2021-06-06T12:20:40+00:00

If the girl is not initially attracted to you or does not have a minimum level of interest , you won't be able to magically make her attracted

This should be the opening sentence of every dating textbook.

Same-Raisin-3104 · 2021-06-06T01:10:23+00:00

So work on yourself, get money and jacked, then they’ll give you the time of day.

Zenterus · 2021-06-06T08:51:39+00:00

It IS a number's game. A number's game you can optimise.

Let me ask you this: Which opener do you think would work best on average?

"Hey, I saw you from over there and I wanted to fuck you so I came over. What's your name?"

"Hey, I think you're adorable. I can't talk for too long but what's your name?"

The answer is obvious here as the examples are greatly exaggerated.

However, this is the reality of the game in very subtle levels as well. There are no obsolete ways to approach that guarantee 100% of positive opens. But there are some approaches that work better than others.

In the end, game is all about finding out the most optimised way to increase the percentages of women you're able to bring into your life.

There are better ways to text a woman than others ("Can you keep a secret" is a more compelling first text than "Hey").

There are better ways to initiate physical escalation than others (more likely for a girl to be receptive to you if she's laughing than if the conversation is stale)

And there are better ways to solidify a connection with a woman than others (if a girl verbally states that she likes you, she's more likely to stay true to that and show up on a date)

The only method that justifies Game being all about initial attraction and a strict number's game that cannot be optimised, would be if the game you're doing is this modernized "Natural Game".

Don't get me wrong, I also do natural game in the sense that I convey my personality authentically and say what's on my mind truthfully. However I also have a good understanding of game and the dynamics in it, such as validation; investment; compliance; female psychology; dominance; value; pre-selection and other attraction triggers and I understand how to leverage them in my favour.

The natural game that most guys do, is one where they approach a girl with a general direct opener and then just vomit shit. There's no structure to their game, no direction, it's just them expressing themselves, maybe doing a couple of push pulls and baiting the girl to qualify, get the number and then disappear, only to start texting the girl all kinds of random, weird shit. Finally they get online and wonder why their open to close ratio is so low.

That's not bad, compared to the average guy, but there's so much more to game than that.

If you've been taking a lot of action and still struggling with game, then it might be a sign that you're approaching too much and not studying what you're doing bad or good.

The times that my game sky rocketed was when I took some time off and really started to evaluate the way I do things and researching the theory again for new insights for a month or so. By the time I got back in it, my game would be on a whole other level.

Ask yourself these questions:

Do I give a lot of power away in my game for the sake of spiking emotions?

Am I presenting myself to be a challenge or easy pickings to the girls that I approach?

How can I optimise my TextGame so that with every message I can move things smoothly towards the close?

Is there a concept of game theory that isn't present in my game?

WHY do I do certain things in my game? What are those behaviours convey about me? (Neediness or Abundance?)

You constantly have to re-evaluate what you're doing and do the work necessary to reach the level you want to reach.

If you are determined and you have fun with it along the way, your results will increase dramatically.

earsurgery9 · 2021-06-06T08:54:18+00:00

You've found the truth. Everyone does in the end. Takes some people longer than others

The word 'seduction' gives the wrong impression and it implies you can influence girls into being sexually attracted to you and MAKE them wanna sleep with you even if they have zero physical attraction to you

As you rightly say, it's just marketing

Nobody has anything close to that skill - ask yourself why these PUA coaches who know all the theory inside out have to fake infields or approach a tonne of girls to get one (the same one that was receptive to his open)

It's really 'game' - it's basically approaching girls and flirting and the girls who think you are hot will let you escalate on them. If you do this process well (game) you will increase your odds of not completely messing it up!

Ashido_Komaki · 2021-06-07T18:00:34+00:00

I'm on this journey to better myself physically and mentally I'm not ugly but I won't get what I want unless I keep working hard for it.

Own-Salad1974 · 2021-06-06T03:00:34+00:00

So maybe its not about seducing anyone you want, and its about finding someonw who cares about you and vice versa

argumentativepigeon · 2021-06-06T01:49:09+00:00

Either you have an extreme physical abnormality, or your ego is deluding you.

Keep going, or stop. Its your choice. However, don't kid yourself as to why you are stopping.

Secret-Historian101 · 2021-06-06T07:21:44+00:00

But My height 5"5.5' (165cms) doesn't allow me to have multiple relationships

SyreksDungeon · 2021-06-06T09:58:08+00:00

One month ago I was exactly like you. I had been approaching girls and girls and realized that I haven't had a lot of luck. But I thought about a couple of things and it LOOKS like Im actually getting somewhere.

My theory here is this. The place matters a lot. (If you want dm me, im in the process of proving my hypothesis and it looks like im right at the moment)

I believe that picking up girls in a place that doesn't involve socialization its a guarantee for failure. Lets say a supermarket, a clinic, a gas station, a mall etc... How many people do you think go to this places to socialize or flirt? No one. So do you think your chances of meeting a girl there are good? No. First you need a place to socialize. Clubs and bars are the best places for this. There are more places to socialize such as Arcades, Swimming Pools, Sports events, Sports, Carnivals. If you go to those kinds of places your chances are bigger (in my theory, i might be wrong).

Also, reputation is important in other places. If you are trying to pick up girls from college, group of friends, work etc. Their reputation will be affected by their decision, so you will have to play your game in a way that doesn't affect their reputation.

Lets talk about the most obvious and socially accepted place to socialize and flirt with strangers: bars and clubs.

You want sex? Ever heard the women-shaming word "slt or whre"? Well, for seduction, thats who you want. You can't seduce every girl you see, only the ones that are up to it. Most girls you try to approach are so scared of that word, that even if they wanted you so bad they wouldn't spread their legs because that word is so engrained in their mind. They wouldn't have a clean conscience knowing they just fucked or gave a chance to a random guy they just met... unless...

Attraction have a lot of factors. For us men, beauty is a huge factor. But for women there's more to it. The factors are: Physical appearance, Money, and Personality (for what I know). If you are able to surpass the competition with 1 or all of this factors, you might have a chance for a girl to make her feel like getting to know/fuck you is not being them being a wh*re, because, you are: really hot, you will buy them stuff, or simply your personality and hers clicked so freaking good (meaning your social skills are good.

The best option here and the tip that everyone will tell you is to work-out, get money and practice your social skills (which practicing your social skills is super important). But what if you are not that handsome, wealthy, or your social skills aren't that good? There is a cheat code.

You need to look for a club/bar where the competition/other guys is at your level or worse at physical attraction, money and if you have been practicing approach, that are shyer than you. A place that when you enter the room, you at least don't look like one of the last options. Girls will look at you, and if you approach one of them, because the competition is worse/equal as you, they will gladly talk to you and you can show off your social skills.

Theres more to it, but i got bored lmao. Hopefully what i wrote helps.

Antique-Trash2527 · 2021-06-06T10:24:51+00:00

Hey how can I seduce older women and married but not live with her husband.ofcouse wanted to have s.. but how do I get to this

Juan7797 · 2021-06-06T15:58:50+00:00

what if I wanna seduce woamn not girls ? 0_o

loofyd · 2021-06-06T15:59:36+00:00

someone please define what is minimum level of interest

and how to screen girls for it , ESPECIALLY during daygame !

Goulronk · 2021-06-06T18:49:56+00:00

I've also read about people calling it a numbers game but I've never seen anyone explain what it actually means.

Any advice for a guy like myself who has never had any woman be attracted to?

TimOut1 · 2021-06-07T10:42:37+00:00

Since you mentioned it's a numbers game, let me explain my opinion in numbers aswell. You were totally right with "if a girl isn't interested you can't magically make her to be." Let's say you meet like 10% of these girls. Even if you were a god of seduction you couldn't win them because they re just not into you and never will be. But there is also 10% of girls you can land even if ur seduction game is bad as hell. These are the girls you automatically with some other atributes you got. Now we re left with the other 80% of women. Some of them likes you a bit more and some a bit less. It's fair to say that they are not sure if they like you. And that is where you can use seduction. You can make them like you more and more trough the seduction and since there is a huge amount of these kind of women, perfecting your skill of seduction is still goddamm worthed. Even if you can't win em all, you can win most of them. That"s my view. Good luck with finding your passion again. :)

Title	The passion of seducing any girl you want.
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Date	June 6, 2021 12:59 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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