The only way to learn is to continually expose myself to these situations! I wrote up a FR about an OkCupid date that went well a day before, and I had another date arranged with a girl for Thursday night.
I decided to playfully ask her to "be a good host" and hung out in her part of town. I figured she may be more comfortable having me over her place, rather than me inviting her to mine since I am a stranger on the internet, pretty much.
We meet at a bar, and walk around and stop by a few other ones. From the moment we met, she had very heavy eye contact and seemed very into me. I suppose she was blown away by how handsome/chill I was ;)
We chatted and connected pretty well. I'm becoming better and better at "deep diving" and making girls feel comfortable/connected to me. She said she was "pleasantly surprised" with the date so far, especially since it was her first from OkCupid. I told her I was having a good time, and she was fun.
Fast forward a bit, I took her to a dive bar and escalated kino. She went in for the make-out during my "triangular gazing" and did not want to stop. We continued to make out on and off in the bar, having a good time. I moved my hands down her body and turned her on a bit.
Her roomate texted her and wanted to meet up, and meet me as well. She felt unsure because it was our first time meeting, and didn't want to seem clingy I suppose. I told her it was cool, and knew her roomie would give me a stamp of approval. We ran into her and she seemed impressed by me, and went on about her night with her man of the evening.
I proposed that we pick up beer and head back to her place, since it was closeby and the bars were getting boring. She insisted that we couldn't have sex, and I was totally cool with it. Kept pushing through.
We get to her place, get cozy on the couch. Make-out, escalate, and things get heavy. We transition to the bed, I stimulate her real good and make her cum twice. She gave me head and then I slept over for the night.
All in all, it was a fun time. She kept telling me how comfortable she felt with me, and how I was so cool and nice. All of the advice I've read on seddit, along with working on my inner game and confidence have given me tremendous results with the ladies. Everything went along smoothly, and she definitely wants to see me again.
See guys, it's not that hard! I have it kind of easy because I am good looking, but once I stopped over-analyzing and going along with my instincts (and being relaxed and in the moment), everything seemed to fall in place.
I hope to become FWB with these two girls I met this week, and looking forward to the summer to meet more girls. I'm not too experienced with cold approaches, so that may be my next step in terms of game.
Have a great weekend everyone :D
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