Get out of your house/apartment/exc...

kalz44 · 2017-08-26T15:34:34+00:00

One door closes and another opens.

Alex24d · 2017-08-26T19:58:52+00:00

Absolutely. I was out of the social game for a while, haven't partied, haven't even kissed a girl for a year or so, but started going out again 1.5 months ago. Last week all of my friends flaked on me and I was like "fuck it, I guess I'll just go alone get some drinks and go to a club". Fucked a cute HB8 that night with a great body (after not getting laid for 2 years) and made a few male friends as well. I don't care about going out alone anymore.

MrLestat · 2017-08-26T17:19:56+00:00

Just plugging here to give another angle: always have something going on that when a girl flakes it doesn't matter because you can go back to do what you do. Like learning a new skill, having a project, making art, going out to chat with strangers, etc.

This extends to any change of plans and you can accommodate it with whatever you're working towards, game or self improvement

gmol420 · 2017-08-26T19:52:52+00:00

I did this yesterday night. No plans and just started going. I ended up just walking around and hearing the joy in parties around the city. Went past a club with big windows so you could see right into it, but I ended up just staring and eventually just went home. I couldn't even get myself to talk to a drunk guy sitting on the ground, it seemed weird.

Sounds like a lot of whining, I know. I'm going to try and talk to atleast 5 people tonight, so I hope it'll turn into something but I honestly don't think so.

I wonder if there is some kind of meetup thing for people to wingman, I usually do well when I have friends to go back to if things aren't going my way. I know the RSD Inner circle stuff but is that even used anymore?

addman16 · 2017-08-26T19:53:55+00:00

Great message. I really fall victim to this kind of thinking staying home when I don't feel like it. But when my friends force or convince me to come I have such a good time in left thinking why the hell didn't I want to go

ToFapNoMorelsTheGoal · 2017-08-26T20:44:58+00:00

Damn, how large is the city you live in?

Enchylada · 2017-08-26T21:08:15+00:00

...but it's hurricane-ing! 😢 Lmao

2017-08-26T22:07:14+00:00

Where do you live?

deridder · 2017-08-26T19:29:42+00:00

Wow. Nice.

p1243 · 2017-08-26T20:27:02+00:00

great job brother. Being your own man is the best and comes before finding your soulmate. Also, when one door closes, a more lucrative one opens. I usually ask myself, "would I even want to marry a girl that flaked on me?!" - makes things so much better.

LianaHallik · 2017-08-27T07:17:19+00:00

I do go out but am unable to approach girls

zoomzoom1998 · 2017-08-27T14:46:48+00:00

Thanks for the inspiration.

LintentionallyBlank · 2017-08-27T16:29:33+00:00

lives in a dangerous city :'c

LimitedContributor · 2017-08-27T17:59:26+00:00

The OP can be a hard hitter.

Lately, I been running into girls I attempted to approach but I'm too old for. The only hope I feel like I have is running into a joiner in as I visit this college my niece used to go to.

pureboy · 2017-08-27T14:27:01+00:00

What happens next? You think she'll be the one? Or it's just a hookup?

Title	Get out of your house/apartment/exc...
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Date	August 26, 2017 3:01 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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