How to get my boyfriend interested in sex again

yung_yessir · 2020-01-14T21:00:35+00:00

Hes definitely watching porn, tell him to cut it out

2020-01-14T21:04:32+00:00

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KitUbijalec · 2020-01-14T21:19:10+00:00

Wrong sub brah

drinkstea-bakescakes · 2020-01-14T21:24:43+00:00

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axe122 · 2020-01-15T00:39:40+00:00

It’s probably a combination of to much porn and antidepressants. Guys typically no matter what they are going through don’t just wanna stop cumming. But the depression might make it like he doesn’t wanna muster up the energy or strength to fuck. Over master bating will make this even worse and anti depressants can lower your sex drive.

I would talk with him openly about it and see what he says. Make your decisions based on that, if he’s doing to much porn he’ll probably lie about it but just bringing that concept up might snap him back to reality and he may think “shit I gotta get this porn addiction under control and start fucking or she’s gonna leave”

I wouldn’t just leave him after that much time but talk with him about it and if he doesn’t seem to fix it and or is at least making an effort I would consider moving on. You don’t wanna end up cheating on him cuz your sex starved.

Also if your outa shape or put on a bunch of weight you might wanna consider working out and getting in shape. That might not be the p.c. Answer but men are visual creatures and we can’t help if we aren’t turned on by you.

I had tried non shallow dating once and she wanted sex all the time cuz I’m fit muscular and good looking but I only wanted it here and there was causing problems. I tried it and it didn’t work for me, I couldn’t force myself to wanna sleep with her and would honestly have preferred to watch porn over sleep with her a lot of the time as much as that sucks. We can’t tell you’d to start working out and get back in shape cuz we care about or love you and don’t wanna hurt your feelings but this is a strong possibility if you’ve been together for years. If you gained a few pounds but are still relatively the same I doubt your the problem, If you gained a lot of weight and or don’t put I much effort to your appearance it’s very possibly he loves you and cares about you but honestly just doesn’t find you all that sexually appealing anymore.

As a man I find it very important to continue doing whatever I did to attract her through the whole relationship. If I’m independent strong decisive and in shape and taking her out on dates I’ll remain that way throughout the relationship. A lot of guy get super complacent and think they don’t have to dont have to date her anymore to keep her or they kiss her ass cuz they’re afraid to lose her and put her on a pedestal (which if she was there in the first place he woulda never it her) and she gets turned off.

Try reversing the role and think if your the same girl or close to when he was fucking you all the time. For girls it’s more about your looks for men it’s more about our actions.

Bodegaz · 2020-01-15T01:48:55+00:00

Anti depressants will ruin your sex drive. I love sex and since I started antidepressants it has been very difficult to orgasm. I still want sex all the time but findit harder to stay hard and harder to cum.

He can get Viagra from the doctor or switch anti depressants.

Jacob_961 · 2020-01-15T05:41:27+00:00

If the low sex drive thing happened after antidepressants, it’s because of the meds. Otherwise, you have to talk to him. Once every 3 months is not normal.

GranKhan01 · 2020-01-15T02:35:57+00:00

He does not owe you sex young girl. his body his rules

STD_Tyler · 2020-01-14T22:48:15+00:00

Once it is gone, it is gone. Find a new boyfriend...

Title	How to get my boyfriend interested in sex again
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Date	January 14, 2020 8:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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