As a long-time lurker on Seddit, I wanted to share this post about the question game with you guys. I stumbled upon it at the Attraction Forums, where the following was originally posted by silverghost in 2009. While I don't agree with everything said in the original post, I find it a great way to build comfort and spice things up during a date.

This is a copy of his post, I do not claim to have written any of it. Any of the content is posted for educational purposes only.

Question Game V 2.0

After many people asked me for the updated version of the question game I use along with more insights I got from using it and a list of questions I use I decided to make a new thread about it that will include everything. So here it is! Of course credit goes to all the previous posters of my original thread and Braddock for having a list of question in his blog.

The question game

The question game originally (before I tweak it) is a comfort building routine that Mystery invented where you use it to find similarities and put some light in the life and habits of each person thus making her open up to you and subtly DHV and qualify her. It could often turn sexual but that was not its point. (Often times by using it the wrong way you could create buyer’s remorse for turning the conversation too sexual, too early).

After I tweaked it I used it as a seduction routine. So its purpose now is to make a girl horny and literally jump you or make your advances easier. Great thing about it is that I have field tested it MANY times so I KNOW it works most of the time. For me this routine is like “break the glass, if everything else fails”. It works so great because it puts both of you on a “Game” context, meaning everything you ask is part of a game. Otherwise if you’d make questions like that you'd appear nosy or socially un-calibrated.

So how you start it? When you are in comfort (most of the time, I’ll explain later), you will tell her:

“Hey, let’s play the question game. We’ll ask each other 1 question in turns, we have to be honest, we can’t avoid any questions and you must ask questions that you wouldn’t normally ask and I wouldn’t normally answer. For example don’t ask me what food I like most. You can ask anything you like!”

They say the question game is used to get to know each other so every question should be a story. I agree with that. But my version is to get her in the mood for sex so I prefer the questions to come and go fast so the tension stays in the air. When you do the sex questions try to refrain from commenting on the answers! If she says I had an orgy don’t blink or go wow or whatever. Say “cool” and move to your question. You’ll be surprised what girls will share with you if you don’t appear judgmental or horny and at how horny girls will get from it. Your goal is to DHV but in what makes you special in bed and what your experience is.

Logistics

Since this is a seduction routine you must play it somewhere, where sex is logistically possible, in your house, in the car, in a secluded location whatever AND in isolation.

Since I also fell victim of my urges when I first field tested it, I tested it online. It was a great success for the night except that I created such a buyer’s remorse that I couldn’t get the girl out of the house after it. And even if I did the momentum was lost. When you use this routine on the internet and not from up close God kills a kitten… Don’t be that guy…

In all my threads I say that I follow the 10 hour rule and I’ll say it again too. It’s better to play this game inside these 10 hours. After that your job will become harder because the mystery of you will start disappearing. Too much comfort and you are out of the game. Also it doesn’t matter if you have kissed the girl before. You can reach from kissing to sex one after the other. A girl that is hot and horny will sleep with you if you play your cards right.

There is of course an exception, where you can use this technique to lay a girl that LJBF you or a girl you know for some time. The flipside is that if that doesn’t also work you’ll probably lose her.

Frame plays a huge part on this. You must appear like talking about sex is not a big deal and it’s a normal topic for you. If you appear erotic and not like a horny drooling machine she ll open up easier.

General Guidelines:

Now some pointers. The game has a structure. That means:

General questions ----> Sexual question ----> Ping for response (if she asks you a sexual question back then make another 1-2 and then a general question and then back to the sexual ones| if she doesn’t, go back to the general questions, ask one more and then ask another sexual question) ----> More sexual questions----> Ping for responses and then try to move to end game questions, do the same as you did in the sexual questions but this time you need to pay attention to her to see where this is going.

There is a chance she’ll ask you the same question as you did. Don’t go back on it if it’s something you can DHV. But then ask her to make another question as penalty. The more questions she asks you the more you can show off. Don’t answer boring answers. DHV whenever u can with "ok you want a straight answer? Because I might sound like I am bragging”. Don’t ask details about her stories (you’ll soon learn them at some point).

Ask questions that you do care about. Don’t forget this is also a sort of qualification for you. For example if she says she never shaves, and you can’t stand that you’ll probably want to move on and not lay her. Don’t make any disapproving comments or appear judgmental or even flinch at something she said that you didn’t like.

Tonality plays an important role later in the game. When you describe something, describe it with emotions, passion and like you live it with deep slow seductive voice. Also another good one is to say "hmm let me say this to your ear because even walls have ears" and then say it with deep passionate voice. Make her lean in. I had girls try to kiss me by themselves after I did that. Make sure to do it like you tell her a dirty little secret, breath on her neck. Do this of course on the end game questions. If your intuition is in sync you can tell when the window opens to kiss her.

Girls will often ask if u had a threesome. I don’t care if you haven’t kissed a woman before say yes to this. Also respond to questions casually don’t go bragging your ass off on every opportunity. The less you give them the more they construct images in their minds. That’s why men are visual creatures while women are emotional. Describe the emotions and anchor good feelings from her. Don’t ask questions about dead pets, fears, etc. Keep it positive. If you ask her how her best orgasm of her life felt like guess what this will anchor?

Another winner is if she asks something about oral sex like if you shave yourself (where you ask back if she does) or if you like it when you give oral always but always say "It’s so nice to have a girl that takes care of herself because one of my big loves is giving oral sex. I can sit down there for hours if she is clean and shaved". You just said that 1) You like to please her 2) you will lick her brains out. Of course only do this if u enjoy it. Trust me I had girls crying from pleasure and it’s not rocket science to do so. Just do it. As I say be the best she ever had. Communicate to her that giving pleasure is important to you. Also after amazing sex you’ll never get buyer's remorse. If you ever slept with a woman and then she didn’t want to see you again I have grim news for you…

Take notice to how she was before you started the game and after you have gone to the end game questions. Check signs of horniness, change of breathing, perspiration, dilated pupils and stuff you normally see when a woman is horny. Sounds corny but the contrast from the beginning to the end will be obvious.

List of questions:

And yes since some of you nagged me on my old thread and with PMs about a list of questions (grrr) I managed to compile one with the help of other people that used them, questions that girls asked me, miaddict that linked me to Braddock’s blog where I got many general and sexual questions. Thanks people.

General questions:

Biggest lie you ever said

Has your daddy ever spanked you? I mean your biological daddy

Are you a cat person or a dog person?

What are you most proud of?

How will you know if you have lived a full life?

If Hollywood made a movie about your life what would it be rated and who would be the star?

Are you closer to your dad or your mom?

If you could travel anywhere in the world where would you go?

If you could do anything in the world without fear of failure what would you do?

If you had to pick a relationship between these two which would you pick. A relationship that was the greatest sex you could ever imagine, but you weren’t deeply in love or one that was a notebook style romance, but the sex was just ok? (good pinging question)

If you could have any car in the world what would you drive?

What is your most embarrassing moment?

What’s one thing that if your mom new about you, she would freak out?

Do you have any tattoos?

Do you have any piercings?

What is your biggest insecurity?

If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

What is your most treasured memory?

Do you prefer being around men or women? Do your closest friends tend to be men or women?

Sexual Questions:

Would you date a girl?

Have you made out with a girl? (Don’t ask them together with the above)

Have you ever gone out with no underwear?

Craziest place you ever had sex?

Do you watch porn?

Favorite sex position.

Have you been on a strip club?

What turns you on more than anything?

Have you ever been on a sex shop?

Have you ever been bound? (Handcuffs, ropes etc)

Can you name a porn star?

Ever been spanked?

Have you had satisfying sex within the last three months?

Dirtiest name you’ve been called in sex and you liked it?

Are you into BDSM?

What turns you on?

CHECKPOINT: (If you haven’t yet kiss closed... (Why btw????) Ask her Mystery's kiss close "do you want to kiss me?" No matter her answer keep it up. Don’t even flinch if she says no. I’ve had many girls tell me no and after 20 minutes jump on me. The decision to kiss her at this point is yours. If you think you can kiss her and f-close her go for it. If you think it’s better to get her hornier just ignore it. My advice is to always kiss close her before you reach this point. But shit happen.

End Game questions:

Spit or swallow?

Weirdest place you have masturbated?

Weirdest item that you have used to masturbate?

How many fingers you can fit inside you?

A fantasy of yours

Master or slave?

You do anal?

Ever had a threesome?

(If she says yes ask next question if it was MMF or FFM)

Would you ever film yourself having sex?

How many times you masturbate in a week in average?

Are you into dirty talk?

Are you loud in sex?

How many guys you’ve been with? (Just to avoid her asking you, but be careful it can backfire)

Trimmed or shaved?

Last question before sex (hopefully):

In a scale 1-10 how wet you are now? (If she says anything above 8 go for it. If she says anything under it, go on with the game.)

So that is all! I hope you enjoyed it. Try it and I wait feedback and questions you might have. Again credit goes to all the people that helped me. Many of them which wanted their privacy and others that didn’t. Also big thanks to Braddock that helped me with the questions! Thanks man!