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heretogetbetter/r/seduction29/12/15 07:51 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction10/03/16 02:29 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction02/03/16 01:25 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction28/07/15 01:40 AM
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Field Reportheretogetbetter/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:43 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction25/07/15 01:55 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/01/16 12:12 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction07/11/14 05:29 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction25/07/15 07:55 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction26/12/15 08:55 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction20/03/14 05:30 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction02/11/14 07:44 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction23/04/16 11:22 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction23/07/15 10:49 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction29/10/14 10:55 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction24/11/14 06:39 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction29/12/15 12:14 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction15/03/14 05:28 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction22/12/15 10:05 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction02/02/16 11:34 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction20/07/15 09:08 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction21/07/15 06:08 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP20/12/15 08:37 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction28/03/14 01:47 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/12/14 09:26 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP18/02/16 09:19 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction21/07/15 07:42 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction13/01/16 03:23 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction24/12/15 05:34 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction15/03/16 01:34 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction16/07/15 12:08 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction07/09/14 01:40 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction07/08/15 12:52 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/03/16 06:16 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction07/12/15 02:30 AM
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Red Pill Theoryheretogetbetter/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 09:15 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction11/03/16 02:04 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction19/03/14 08:48 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction04/11/14 12:15 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction22/01/16 12:46 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction28/12/15 12:57 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:37 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction15/09/14 11:28 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction27/07/15 01:53 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/08/15 11:17 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction20/03/16 02:12 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction19/01/16 06:19 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction13/03/14 07:12 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/01/16 10:39 PM
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Field Reportheretogetbetter/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 11:51 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction25/12/15 05:39 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:50 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction10/11/14 03:58 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction16/11/14 09:54 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction13/10/14 08:36 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction17/01/16 12:45 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction18/01/16 03:45 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction24/12/15 05:36 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:30 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction02/02/16 11:41 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction11/12/15 12:56 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction19/03/14 06:29 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction14/03/16 03:25 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction26/12/15 06:51 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction23/09/14 12:41 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction06/03/16 09:55 PM
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Field Reportheretogetbetter/r/seduction01/08/15 04:29 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/01/16 05:37 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction13/03/16 12:57 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction24/12/15 05:16 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP28/02/16 01:30 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction14/12/15 06:44 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/03/16 11:40 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction13/02/16 01:36 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction14/03/16 07:45 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction27/11/14 05:11 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction10/08/15 12:00 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction27/12/15 05:38 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:42 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction10/10/15 03:49 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction29/12/15 01:00 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:26 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction27/07/15 02:19 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:47 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:29 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction14/01/16 10:07 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction25/12/15 05:07 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction06/11/14 12:39 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction19/01/16 11:04 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction10/01/16 11:49 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction21/01/16 04:44 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction28/12/15 09:35 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction23/09/14 11:50 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction31/07/15 06:08 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction12/03/16 01:58 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction03/01/16 01:45 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction14/12/15 02:49 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction22/08/15 10:29 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction17/06/16 01:57 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction04/01/16 12:36 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction24/12/15 01:17 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/01/16 06:00 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction18/12/15 03:55 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction18/02/16 05:54 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction24/12/15 02:19 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/03/16 12:49 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction19/01/16 01:36 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:53 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleheretogetbetter/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 10:44 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction09/01/16 11:37 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction09/01/16 11:49 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP05/03/16 08:17 PM
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Red Pill Theoryheretogetbetter/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 01:31 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction25/07/15 08:45 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction31/12/15 03:07 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction03/08/15 06:19 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction15/01/16 12:39 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction20/05/15 07:48 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction24/07/15 05:59 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP19/12/15 09:54 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction03/07/15 04:06 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction27/06/15 10:27 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction21/03/16 01:30 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP11/12/15 11:28 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction15/01/16 02:08 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP24/02/16 10:26 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction07/12/15 12:47 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction11/01/16 03:42 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction28/12/15 12:50 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:35 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction21/12/15 11:36 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction20/07/15 11:18 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction28/07/15 07:57 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction06/03/16 08:46 PM
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Field Reportheretogetbetter/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 03:20 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction07/03/16 09:19 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP06/12/15 10:17 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction22/07/15 04:51 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP18/12/15 01:10 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction08/07/15 07:39 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction27/12/15 05:31 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction30/07/15 02:59 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction01/03/16 12:54 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction20/07/15 10:59 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:42 AM
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Field Reportheretogetbetter/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 08:30 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction21/07/15 02:37 AM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction19/06/15 11:33 PM
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heretogetbetter/r/seduction21/07/15 03:52 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
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I am a huge fan of this sub but this is the first post where I sympathized with the woman. This revenge ploy by the brother is totally fucked up for the following reasons: 1) Women are allowed to have sex with whoever they want and whenever they want. It's a double standard when a guy has lots of sex he's a player but when a girl has lots of sex she's a slut. 2) The brother's retaliation is disproportional. He gets 3 months grounded. In return, the brother smears his sister's reputation across F…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/16 04:19 PM
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I see it like getting a Facebook is like going to a job interview prepared. On Facebook I can see if she has the same tastes as me. If she does have similarities, I can bring that up on the date. I wouldn't call it stalking, I'd call it research.
/r/seduction05/05/16 10:22 PM
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I wouldn't send anything else after this. If she doesn't respond move on.
/r/seduction22/03/16 09:52 PM
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I would wait 2 hours instead of 2 days. Gotta strike while you are still fresh in her memory.
/r/seduction22/03/16 02:16 PM
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I never said silence was bad. There's a difference between silence and running out of things to say.
/r/seduction20/03/16 02:42 PM
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Yeah but enforcing them by shouting and whining that you don't have a job? I don't think that is very attractive.
/r/seduction15/03/16 12:19 AM
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Wait...you said you didn't want to pay for the drinks because you didn't have a job? Not because of the principle of the thing? Refusing to pay for someone else is the right thing to do, but it doesn't just flip a switch in a girl to just open her legs for a guy. Also you said you were "fed up" meaning you had a history of paying for girls' drinks and getting no results. This frustration doesn't turn any one on and reeks of desperation. I also really don't appreciate that Jew joke. Doesn't add a…
/r/seduction14/03/16 07:19 PM
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Since when is having a tantrum called passion?
/r/seduction14/03/16 06:53 PM
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You are blowing this out of proportion. Worse that happens is that the police come over and then it is a he said she said scenario and they can't pin anything on you. Also, never ever talk to the cops. It can only get you in trouble. If you have to say anything say "I'm not saying anything until my lawyer is present."
/r/seduction14/03/16 03:08 PM
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People who are depressed tend to oversleep. It is a bad habit formed.
/r/seduction13/03/16 03:33 PM
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Look at her eyes, then her nose, then her mouth. Do this a few times if you feel like you are staring.
/r/seduction11/03/16 07:18 PM
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The bouncer knows the girl's situation. Maybe she came in with a guy and he went to the bathroom. If you ask the bouncer if she came with anyone he will tell you. Also it gives them a heads up that you are there to approach so they know what you're about and hopefully don't feel they have to intervene if an approach goes sour.
/r/seduction10/03/16 10:20 PM
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An approachable woman or group of women.
/r/seduction10/03/16 09:44 PM
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I'm famous! Lol. My only advice would be to be careful who you approach on a college campus as reputation is everything in college. And to be clear, I have never done or sold drugs in my life.
/r/seduction10/03/16 02:51 AM
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Robert Greene is a brilliant author and his book series is fantastic. I highly recommend.
/r/seduction09/03/16 01:56 PM
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No way I am going to be an orbiter.
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:02 AM
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She really wanted to be my friend and even was excited about tentative plans to go to a museum. I won't follow through of course.
/r/seduction09/03/16 12:02 AM
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You need to resolve this oneitis. She sounds like a complete jerk. She may be good looking, but looks are common and passing. If she is mean to you you need to next her.
/r/seduction08/03/16 11:53 PM
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Under what circumstances are police allowed to search you?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 09:11 PM
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Why are you texting plans? I've found that to be the guy's prerogative.
/r/seduction08/03/16 06:05 PM
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I would give her a second chance. If she flakes a second time then it's a different story. Also you should be looking not to fake an alpha life but to have an alpha life. Have hobbies, go to school, do work, exercise, live out your life.
/r/seduction08/03/16 04:41 PM
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Own it with some humor. Something along the lines of "Did it work? I practiced it all this morning in front of the mirror."
/r/seduction08/03/16 03:38 PM
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Next!
/r/seduction08/03/16 03:32 PM
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That has absolutely nothing to do with my post. If you have a problem with me you are free to send me a dm.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:06 PM
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Ok I have made like 3 accounts this year so get your facts straight. And second of all idgaf about you because you are the ultimate troll and my content speaks for itself. By the way, I've been a redditor for 2 years and you have only had a problem with me today.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:58 AM
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wow. Congratulations. Your biggest accomplishment to date. You must be proud of yourself.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:55 AM
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I have absolutely no idea what you are talking about but keep going on with your delusions.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:42 AM
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You're a moron. You literally have nothing better to do than to bully others who have legitimate concerns. You're the troll.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:41 AM
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Dating a Muslim girl doesn't make her my girlfriend I didn't get banned anywhere. Some girls just heard that I had asked the other one out and they were pissed about it. Huh? Now you are just making stuff up. I am nowhere near 30 years old.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:38 AM
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That's the best you can come up with? You are a joke get off this thread now.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:26 AM
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Look who is the troll! Instead of bullying others, why don't you produce some real content? You are a joke, a loser who lives vicariously on hate speech and trolling.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:21 AM
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Don't you have anything better to do with your life?
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:16 AM
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Screw you abdada you have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:29 PM
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I do kickboxing and running. I also do pushups but I don't lift yet. I do masturbate. I feel most focused the hour after I masturbate. No desire for sex at all. It is a great feeling.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 09:46 PM
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It's self-improvement. That's what I said in the beginning. It's a seduction and self improvement thread.
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:16 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:15 PM
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The question is how do I stay on top of the cycle.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 02:43 PM
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I cannot become taller but the rest of what you said is solid. Thank you for your input and anecdote.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 04:07 PM
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I have definitely learned from the experience.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 09:07 AM
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The question is what do I do about these trumped up charges?
/r/askTRP04/03/16 08:56 AM
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What they did though was trump up the charges against me, falsifying claims of harassment and abuse.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:05 AM
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How long do you think this will take? A few months?
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:06 AM
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I do have a blog and could write a blog post. Thing is I don't want to bring more attention to it than has already occurred.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:00 AM
2

The worst that can happen is I will be banned from campus. Which is fine because I don't go there. The shotgun approach was fun but very inefficient. I think I overfished a small pond and now I am paying the consequences.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:14 AM
3

3 to 5 on Facebook every 3 days 7 to 8 daily in real life 100 is an exaggeration my point being that it was a ton of women I approached.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:08 AM
1

You're right. I just need to focus on my own life and forget about pickup.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:06 AM
-17

Point is I was completely harmless and more importantly now I have a publicity nightmare on my hands which needs to be resolved.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:59 AM
3

I got a screenshot of a sorority girl ranting about me on Facebook. It is bad. I plan to post it as soon as I edit out my name.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 01:20 AM
4

"Hey I'm running to a meeting but I just wanted to say you look really nice today." That's exactly what I said. Just a compliment.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 01:04 AM
-1

They are claiming things I simply did not do. They say I sent vulgar messages online. False. That I waited outside their buildings. False. And other stuff that simply did not happen.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 11:53 PM
6

I was just talking to them for 15 seconds. Far from harassment.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 06:54 PM
1

You'd be surprised. I've had girls forget me
/r/seduction03/03/16 03:57 PM
8

They were flattered that I stopped my run to talk to them. It also gave me an excuse to eject early.
/r/seduction02/03/16 06:01 PM
5

24
/r/seduction02/03/16 06:00 PM
15

College campus in a city. Teeming with young, gorgeous women.
/r/seduction02/03/16 03:30 PM
23

Yeah. Simple. Nothing too intense.
/r/seduction02/03/16 12:16 PM
35

"Hey, I'm on a run right now so I don't have too much time to talk, but I saw you and I had to let you know you are really cute. Would you be interested in getting a cup of coffee sometime?"
/r/seduction02/03/16 11:34 AM
104

I ran. I would run up to a girl, say my line, then move on to the next one.
/r/seduction02/03/16 02:28 AM
-5

I take just one headphone off and if the conversation is going really well I take the second headphone off. Because you are not listening to anything you can still talk to them with both headphones on and it shows that your approach was spontaneous.
/r/seduction02/03/16 12:54 AM
4

That's good. I'll use that.
/r/seduction28/02/16 05:51 AM
-1

Yes. Dos.
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:31 PM
2

If I meet them and they say that I say something along the lines of "Geez I only asked you to coffee I didn't ask you to marry me." If they press further I say to just see how it goes and take it as it comes.
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:24 PM
-2

One is a fuckbuddy which we are both clear about and the other I am working on.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 04:10 PM
4

Whether I was catcalling or not. The jerk wouldn't let up, always out to get the last word.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 09:59 PM
8

You're right. I can't believe I got sucked into arguing with him. I should've kept my eye on the goal and stayed on the girl. She was immensely pleased with the compliment I gave her, he was the only one with an issue.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 09:44 PM
25

Do this with or without rain.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:43 PM
4

ask for the date, not the number don't say "i think", just state that she is really cute" put a time constraint. say you are running to meet a friend or something.
/r/seduction14/02/16 10:14 PM
3

Read Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari. He has a whole chapter dedicated to dating in Tokyo. What he says is that the men there are docile and not aggressive, and that the women there wish there were men who would get out of their shells and ask them out.
/r/seduction14/02/16 12:38 AM
2

I personally never use it, although it is implied. Because the women I am going out with are ones I've known for just a few minutes, I use phrases like "Go for drinks sometime" or "I'd love to see you again". Keep it light and fun.
/r/seduction14/01/16 10:38 AM
1

I would say it is fine to text him if it has been a week. It shows that you are a serious person and not a flake. That you're in it for the long term. If he doesn't respond after this text I would move on.
/r/seduction14/01/16 01:29 AM
1

I'm sure they are important but they do not define you.
/r/seduction10/01/16 02:56 PM
1

Just keep approaching. Practice is necessary to become better.
/r/seduction10/01/16 02:55 PM
1

Freelance work. Heavy lifting, cleaning, yard work, data entry, research, delivery... Stuff like that
/r/seduction09/01/16 01:57 AM
1

24
/r/seduction09/01/16 01:28 AM
2

Thank you very much. I appreciate the feedback. Looking forward to your posts as well.
/r/seduction09/01/16 12:22 AM
5

I put out my perspectives and information for free. If you don't like it, well you get what you pay for.
/r/seduction08/01/16 11:45 PM
7

You're welcome. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction08/01/16 12:41 PM
1

They were driving home and they saw me on the street chatting up a girl.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:59 AM
2

I hate to be the hater here, but this isn't an optimal approach. If I were here I would do the same thing simply because it is weird and I would not want to get fired. What I would have done would be to ask her when she gets off, then approach her when she is off and ask for her number.
/r/seduction04/01/16 12:30 AM
1

I don't do the question game because it doesn't lead to elaboration. You answer a question then next! There is no depth to the conversation.
/r/seduction03/01/16 03:58 AM
19

Thank you. I find it helps me think when I write.
/r/seduction29/12/15 08:43 PM
3

I ask specifically for the date to be clear in my intentions. I don't want to come off as a player who collects numbers and considers that a score. Not that your approach is wrong, it's just different.
/r/seduction29/12/15 04:55 PM
-1

Then they sound stupid.
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:11 AM
1

I'm of college age so it isn't that weird.
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:11 AM
1

Yeah yeah I know
/r/seduction29/12/15 02:27 AM
7

You are giving a reason for why you are talking to her. It is said with a resolve to begin a conversation. You are not lavishing her, you are stating a fact. You can always neg after this. Also I don't think a neg is a good way to start an interaction.
/r/seduction28/12/15 10:35 PM
5

Yes. It is direct and to the point. Remember that most of it is body language. I look her straight in the eye when I say it, crack a smile barely, stand up straight, and face her directly. All of this adds up to a powerful impact. Girls also appreciate a man that doesn't beat around the bush. Especially at bars, it is obvious why you are talking to them, so why not put it out there in the open? You show you are not scared to expose your feelings and be vulnerable.
/r/seduction28/12/15 10:32 PM
5

I use it for daygame but I see no reason why this couldn't work at night too.
/r/seduction28/12/15 09:16 PM
1

I like my response better. It is the truth but not the whole truth, which is easier for the girl to swallow.
/r/seduction28/12/15 05:57 PM
3

What would you have said?
/r/seduction28/12/15 03:43 PM
6

Technically it is a self improvement group and your goal is to talk to strangers.
/r/seduction28/12/15 03:21 PM
1

I do both. I text initially and if they respond well I call them. I have found doing both works well.
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:52 PM
1

If you call and they don't answer, do you leave a message? If you call and they answer, how long do you talk?
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:51 PM
1

Text the girl. Takes 10 seconds. Instead of the 30 seconds you have to wait for her to answer the phone. Your time is valuable.
/r/seduction25/12/15 06:51 PM
1

I was a chump. I still don't want to be with her type. Shame on her for trying to take advantage of the situation.
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:41 PM
2

I've already moved on. The nerve she has.
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:27 PM
1

I have gone for the kiss multiple times but she rebuffed me.
/r/seduction24/12/15 06:38 PM
1

It wasn't anything specific. The essence of it all I put in the post. I am so enraged right now.
/r/seduction24/12/15 05:55 PM
9

The first one. The second one asks for validation and allows you to be shut down.
/r/seduction24/12/15 06:06 AM
3

I do freelance work, so it differs day to day. But when people hire me as an external source, they expect me to be a professional. Jobs include heavy lifting, cleaning, and research.
/r/seduction23/12/15 11:14 PM
1

One was found on okcupid, the other in a coffee shop. The chances I will see them again are none.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:37 PM
4

It's a classic
/r/seduction22/12/15 09:14 PM
1

I have a jacket and some shirts from them. They're pretty decent quality, they at least fulfill my needs.
/r/seduction22/12/15 01:05 PM
1

I have a jacket and some shirts from them. They're pretty decent quality, they at least fulfill my needs.
/r/seduction22/12/15 01:05 PM
12

I prefer to be called Barney. Barney Stinson.
/r/seduction22/12/15 08:19 AM
7

I didn't have time for flirtatious eye contact so I jumped right in. I did approach her from the front so she knew of my presence beforehand.
/r/seduction22/12/15 08:16 AM
1

It just baffles me why she would stick out to me. She really isn't special in any way, although she is smart and driven and attractive. Just for some strange reason I view her differently, as if she is unique, even though I do know she is not.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 02:48 AM
1

Please elaborate
/r/askTRP20/12/15 02:37 AM
1

How do you recommend I step up my game?
/r/askTRP20/12/15 12:29 AM
1

I ask out 5 to 8 girls every day. It is a blur to me at this point. I have next to no feeling for any of them. Except for this one. I don't know what it is. But I don't like it.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 11:43 PM
2

It is what it is. Question is how do I go from here.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 11:12 PM
-4

I was just being honest and giving her a reason for why I was talking to her.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 10:37 PM
-5

Thank you. I was hoping this wasn't oneitis.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 10:37 PM
1

Thank you. That is what I was thinking.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:27 AM
1

Realization is the first step
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:26 AM
1

Definitely staying active has occupied my mind enough to the point where I think little of women.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:24 AM
1

I see what you're saying, but my point was when she said I was clingy I felt nothing. Sure I like her, but if she left tomorrow it would have a negligible effect on me.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:23 AM
1

It is working out. It's a great site I recommend.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:25 PM
1

Thanks for the dose of reality
/r/askTRP07/12/15 02:33 AM
1

Yeah it sounds ridiculous but in the field I have found it actually works out.
/r/seduction07/12/15 01:35 AM
-9

I won't divulge my income but I know of people who make around $3K a month. It varies of course and in the beginning you won't make as much as more experienced people.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 12:10 AM
-2

Very true. I am 24 and she is 21 and we have our first date set for a few days for now. So things are still very young.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 10:42 PM
1

Got it. Googled DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, very helpful.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 04:58 PM
1

What if she is talking about a girl?
/r/askTRP27/08/15 11:51 PM
1

Thanks! And good advice.
/r/seduction19/08/15 08:53 PM
1

Just approach. It's never too late.
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:15 PM
1

That is fucked up. Makes me distrust everything.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:56 AM
1

Doesn't sound like much of a friend you got there if she is trying to sabotage you.
/r/seduction14/08/15 03:20 PM
1

Take pictures of the two of you at the zoo. Make it memorable. I would ditch the restaurant and go directly to the arts district. Make the restaurant for a second date.
/r/seduction10/08/15 01:36 AM
5

The text may be lofty, but the message is clear: complimenting other people spreads good in the world.
/r/seduction08/08/15 06:39 PM
0

If she is serving you put your number on the receipt.
/r/seduction08/08/15 05:53 PM
4

Hahahahaha thank you I hope you felt inspired or at least had a good laugh.
/r/seduction08/08/15 03:48 PM
6

I would drop everything I was doing in order to respond to a text. I made it a priority in my life, even though it shouldn't be. That's what I was trying to convey.
/r/seduction07/08/15 02:53 AM
1

Haha! That guy was funny. I only hope not.
/r/seduction07/08/15 01:42 AM
2

Say you had a good time at the birthday party and ask if she would be interested in meeting up.
/r/seduction07/08/15 01:09 AM
2

ask for her number. this will prove whether she is interested in you or not. go on a date. bring her back to your place. easy as that.
/r/seduction07/08/15 01:08 AM
1

If they are tourists, than aren't they leaving soon?
/r/seduction07/08/15 12:35 AM
2

Backstory please?
/r/seduction06/08/15 02:00 PM
1

At least she texted you. I would give her another chance, maybe plan for earlier in the night.
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:12 PM
-1

I would also add that I like to say "let's exchange numbers". It is a statement, not a question. And it is more diplomatic.
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:27 PM
-8

I would just add that if they say no to the number I ask them for their facebook. This is a failsafe way of being able to get in contact with them.
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:25 PM
2

I would do the opposite: ignore the obstacles, focus on the target. That way they know which girl you are hitting on and you don't get stuck with someone else.
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:24 PM
1

Try doing the coffee challenge. It is where you buy a coffee and ask for 10% off. It is harder than it looks.
/r/seduction31/07/15 01:59 AM
1

I do both. I work out and do soccer twice a week.
/r/seduction30/07/15 09:00 PM
1

Can you walk to work? That is a good way to meet women on the street.
/r/seduction30/07/15 02:26 AM
1

If it feels right, go for it.
/r/seduction29/07/15 02:48 PM
19

Always remember the goal of texting: to set up a date. You don't have to keep up rapport with a girl. Just stick to the basics and set up a date.
/r/seduction29/07/15 02:47 PM
1

Ask for the opinion, chat a little, then ask for the number. Asking for the opinion is just to get her attention, the rest is up to you. When you approach a group, approach the girl first then approach the group if they say something.
/r/seduction29/07/15 10:22 AM
2

I think I know who their target market is.
/r/seduction28/07/15 10:18 PM
2

You can ask for the date or the number before you end the conversation. Just keep going with the conversation until you reach your stop.
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:58 PM
4

Approach the girl first, then if the group says anything approach the group. It is actually not that difficult to approach a girl with her friends. Most of the time her friends are encouraging of the girl meeting a new guy.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:43 AM
4

I like this comment a lot. Thank you!
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:30 AM
17

How do you know it is her boyfriend? It could be her brother or an orbiter. Approach to find out.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:28 AM
3

You can ask her what she does for a living, where she is from, why she is at the place you are at, you can tell her a story, or just about anything as long as it keeps the conversation going. I personally think of conversation as you qualifying the girl: you are finding out if she is even worth the time of interaction and is not just a pretty face.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:27 AM
3

Thanks. I have a few motivators. I am naturally a social person and I like meeting new people. I've had success in many forms, from a personal transformation to getting girlfriends to one night stands to close friends. It is fun for me and I do have a good time. Thanks for your comment.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:31 AM
1

3 to 5 is an average. Sometimes I approach more, sometimes less. Depends on the day.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:20 AM
2

You're welcome! Feel free to check out my other posts. I am no pro but I've had a lot of experience and I've learned a lot.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:02 AM
1

Use a pickup line. Here's one that's popular on tinder: "If you were a vegetable you'd be a cutecumber."
/r/seduction28/07/15 01:45 AM
2

Doesn't matter. The goal of texting is to set up a time to meet. That's it. This light banter you are doing is fine if it leads to you asking her, which in your example it did not.
/r/seduction27/07/15 12:54 AM
1

But he didn't sleep with you on the first date, so what's the problem?
/r/seduction27/07/15 12:50 AM
0

Well it is important enough to be in the sidebar.
/r/seduction26/07/15 04:48 PM
1

What situation are you talking about? How you react depends on the situation.
/r/seduction26/07/15 04:56 AM
12

Well I hope you found value in the rest of the post.
/r/seduction26/07/15 03:22 AM
10

Listen to pump up music before your date.
/r/seduction26/07/15 02:56 AM
1

So how would you reply to a shit test?
/r/seduction26/07/15 02:19 AM
0

You should have built enough rapport with her by the time you go for a walk. Also, it is a non sexual part of her body. Plus you are not just putting your hand on her for the sake of it, you are putting your hand on her to guide her to your next destination. There is a reason why you are touching her.
/r/seduction26/07/15 12:33 AM
34

Is there any reality where a girl would invite me out on a date?
/r/seduction25/07/15 07:00 PM
29

We are in college too.
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:59 PM
4

Getting Her Number Without Saying A Word: http://www.simplepickup.com/article/6793/getting-her-number-without-saying-word Some ideas you can incorporate in to your non verbal flirting.
/r/seduction25/07/15 11:03 AM
1

Approach and always be closing. Don't forget to close.
/r/seduction25/07/15 12:54 AM
1

Google cupid shmupid. He is a 5' pua.
/r/seduction24/07/15 06:15 PM
1

I would go out immediately. Build yourself up. The worst you can do is make her jealous.
/r/seduction24/07/15 02:49 AM
1

Now how do you balance this with girls who you legitimately want to have as friends? Does that necessarily make you an orbiter?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 11:55 PM
1

Please elaborate. Are you facebook friends with her? Are you located near her this summer? How well do you know each other? Does she consider you a friend, or does she barely know you?
/r/seduction23/07/15 11:24 PM
7

I would focus on the long term. Make friends with them. Say hi to them. Mingle with them. Then once they get to know you, ask for a number of one of them. That's what I would do.
/r/seduction23/07/15 10:25 PM
-1

Are you jogging as well? If you are ask if you can run with her to keep up the pace. If you are walking or sitting, signal her to stop and compliment her, then ask for her number.
/r/seduction23/07/15 10:08 PM
1

Now how long do you hold the kiss? Do you lead it to a makeout?
/r/seduction23/07/15 10:02 PM
1

you can ask anything. "what's your favorite kind of fruit" is an example. open the girl, then open the group. be sure they know who you are hitting on.
/r/seduction22/07/15 09:10 PM
5

Don't beat yourself up over it, you will have more chances.
/r/seduction22/07/15 04:08 PM
0

wow. ok, well you're welcome.
/r/seduction22/07/15 06:22 AM
1

It may be because I am demonstrating value as an athlete. She thinks I am on a run to exercise. Plus I have done this so often my lines are delivered with clarity and confidence.
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:33 AM
0

It is hard when they are interrogating you in the middle of the street to hold your calm but you are definitely right everything you say will be held against you.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:15 AM
0

thanks
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:14 AM
1

you're very right. I always have to remember her point of view.
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:13 AM
0

yeah i guess you're right. the sunk cost would be missing the phone number the first time.
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:10 AM
0

Thank you. I am glad you got some value out of this post.
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:09 AM
0

you're welcome
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:05 AM
0

fair enough
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:05 AM
0

That was kind of the point. Don't place texting as your priority over other tasks, like driving or being busy.
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:05 AM
2

I figure I gain in more than one way.
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:04 AM
0

thank you
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:03 AM
1

I go on my own because I don't have any friends.
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:01 AM
0

It sounds like you've got the hang of kino. I would continue to do what you are doing and practice doing more of it. A high five or a touch on the side of their arm is harmless. You can also shake their hand, or if you are on a date put your arm over their shoulder or around their waist. I would make it to the point where you don't even have to count the number of times you do kino.
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:00 AM
0

Who cares if you didn't ask for her number. Always be closing.
/r/seduction22/07/15 02:55 AM
0

I love texting! Texting is so much fun and you know a girl has seen a text whereas if you call she probably won't answer. My only exception to this is to text her telling you that you are going to call and then call. Calling twice then sending her a text is inundating her and in my opinion looks needy. This day and age everyone texts. And if she likes you she will respond to a text.
/r/seduction22/07/15 02:53 AM
1

I would text her when you are still fresh in her mind. If you're going for the relationship you don't want to not text her after f-closing. It looks like that was your main goal if you don't text her in a relatively soon period of time.
/r/seduction22/07/15 02:48 AM
1

"The opener is the least important part." ~Julien Blanc, Real Social Dynamics. You can say almost anything as long as it starts a conversation. There are some PUAs that take this as far as saying random sentences just to initiate the conversation. I would recommend asking her a question about something about her or about the metro. That's easiest.
/r/seduction22/07/15 02:44 AM
0

That's what I thought at first. But the funny thing is, I think because I catch them off guard, I get many legitimate numbers and go on many meaningful dates. Sure I get a few garbage numbers here and there, but no more than if I were to go out and run daygame.
/r/seduction22/07/15 02:24 AM
2

I would have a conversation with her and see how it goes. If she is showing IOIs, then I would go for the instadate. Otherwise I would just ask for her number and go from there.
/r/seduction22/07/15 02:22 AM
0

Thanks!
/r/seduction22/07/15 02:10 AM
0

There are two possible realities: either she really does have a boyfriend or she is lying to you. If she does have a boyfriend, then it is pointless to try to get with her. Even if you somehow do, you are getting with a cheater and I don't know about you but I don't want to be with someone who cheats. The other reality is she is lying to you. If she really is not in to you that much that she would lie about having a boyfriend, then there is no reason to keep pursuing. Plus you wouldn't want to b…
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:21 PM
1

That's good
/r/seduction21/07/15 03:05 AM
1

Did you ask for their numbers? Always be closing.
/r/seduction11/07/15 11:00 PM
0

thanks
/r/seduction20/06/15 05:12 PM
-3

I made sure I wasn't though.
/r/seduction19/06/15 11:58 PM
-4

I did regular pickup technique.
/r/seduction19/06/15 11:58 PM
0

I was just happy I didn't get arrested!
/r/seduction31/05/15 05:15 PM
1

It was along the lines of "Hey I like your shirt. Nice to meet you, I'm Daniel." It literally was nothing to get riled about.
/r/seduction31/05/15 05:14 PM
0

"Hey, I know this is random, but I think you're really cute." Stuff along those lines.
/r/seduction31/05/15 05:13 PM
2

You can ask a girl out, but do not go overboard. The smaller the campus, the fewer girls you can ask out. Spread it out over multiple days instead of asking out multiple girls at once. Girls talk, and news of a pua will spread like wildfire.
/r/seduction21/05/15 03:55 PM
0

why do you need her number? fb messenger is much more intimate
/r/seduction20/12/14 11:21 PM
1

I'm glad you liked my post. (original author)
/r/seduction11/11/14 10:03 PM
1

Why didn't you ask for the first girls number?
/r/seduction08/11/14 04:49 PM
1

I use the phrase "go out"
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:47 AM
2

I think you are overanalyzing it. 3 does not establish a pattern. I think you did the right thing stopping when you did if your goal was to have a ltr. If they don't want a second date, they probably have stuff going on in their own lives that you cannot control.
/r/seduction03/11/14 06:24 PM
2

Is there a reason you wait?
/r/seduction02/11/14 08:17 PM
2

Rhode Island
/r/seduction01/11/14 11:51 PM
1

They are what society desires. I just wrote it out.
/r/seduction31/10/14 10:33 PM
3

A wingman requires having friends. I recommend doing pickup on men, starting conversations and building connections with guys you vibe with. Then when you want to go out, you'll have bros you can go along with.
/r/seduction30/10/14 12:13 AM
2

Because it is rude to the friend and potentially embarrassing to the target.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:09 AM
2

I can't show intent in front of her friends.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:58 AM
1

It was walking and conversing. Nothing significant happened where I could see the date going wrong.
/r/seduction29/03/14 04:32 PM
-13

I took it out because I believe in inner value, and that can come in many forms.
/r/seduction26/03/14 05:24 PM
-13

I'm just saying that value comes in other forms than what is typically emulated in this subreddit. You're right, and a bitch can come in many forms. I was just trying to introduce something new to what men chase.
/r/seduction26/03/14 05:23 PM
1

My friend does this and it is incredibly frustrating. There is a reason question marks exist, taking them away makes the text look unfinished.
/r/seduction22/03/14 03:10 AM
-3

I think it shows more that you are making an effort and you are interested in her. Honestly, I think PUA do minimal texting is because they have a hard time managing dozens of girls numbers in their phones.
/r/seduction22/03/14 12:29 AM
3

If it isn't true then don't text that. But some guys are excited to see a specific woman. That excitement translates into appreciation and respect for the woman. I've texted "Can't wait for tonight!" and I usually get back a "Me too!" or "Aww that's so sweet :)". And girls get texts from their friends and have their own lives, I doubt they are spending any significant time analyzing one text from a guy.
/r/seduction22/03/14 12:26 AM
-1

It looks needy if you send 5 texts in a row without a response. But if you are getting responses for each text you send, then the level of enthusiasm is equal for both you and her.
/r/seduction21/03/14 11:59 PM
-2

The point is to show empathy. You are empathetic to her, to her ambitions, and to her pursuits. You are a positive influence in her life and someone who will support her. It takes next to no effort to send her a positive, encouraging text. And for her it will go a long way. It also shows you are selfless and willing to go out of your way to make sure she succeeds.
/r/seduction21/03/14 11:56 PM
-10

That is so impersonal. Say something like "I can't wait for our date tomorrow..." or "Hey, just checking, are we on for..." What you wrote was adequate didn't show any enthusiasm on your part.
/r/seduction21/03/14 11:49 PM
-4

I never tell a woman I will text her because I don't want to bind myself to texting her. Also, it is not about where you are but where you want to be. If you want a relationship, text as if you are in a relationship. That way it feels like the two of you are further along than you may be in reality. And as long as you don't text more than twice in a row, it is hard to mess it up. She's texting back, so she must be interested.
/r/seduction21/03/14 11:47 PM
1

I respect your analysis, and what you are saying is common wisdom in the pickup community, but I think she is too absorbed in herself and her own life to be pining after some dude who didn't text her one day. I really think she doesn't care, just like I wouldn't care or take it personally if a girl didn't text me one day. For me personally, I text as a means to stay involved in the girl's life as well as coordinate a date.
/r/seduction20/03/14 05:53 PM
1

I disagree. I will send good morning texts, good luck texts, and can't wait to see you texts. Most of the time they will be flattered by these texts and like feeling appreciated.
/r/seduction20/03/14 05:25 PM
1

"Tell amusing anecdotes." This is something I definitely have a hard time with and need to work on. Everything else you wrote also resonated with me. Thanks.
/r/seduction13/03/14 05:18 PM
1

That may have been one of the issues: escalating too fast to the point where they are either uncomfortable or view it as a one night stand. This is why I stopped going in for the kiss or escalating further. What I noticed is the women who are planning for the long term defer these physical acts for the second or third date.
/r/seduction13/03/14 05:17 PM
1

That was a good tip. I'm not the best conversationalist, so what you said about action dates is right. I've just been doing sit down coffee dates, the ones where you stare at each other and ask mundane questions. I definitely need to ask non-interview questions as well as mix in some action within the first date.
/r/seduction13/03/14 05:10 PM

I'm 24 so I do look like I go there.
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That's exactly what my friend told me. He said that if I looked like Channing Tatum they would have been honored with my approach. In real life I am overweight and do hunch a little. Both things I am working on.
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Good advice. I will disable my profile for the time being hoping that they will eventually move on. And as long as I avoid speaking with the detective I'm ok. Just make sure I keep my mouth shut.
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I have read about guys meeting girls through Facebook. I'm not making this stuff up.
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This comment is spot on. Those girls don't care about me, they care about being a part of something. Hell, this might turn into a full on campaign against harassment with my face as the poster child. Do you think I should create a new Facebook? How do I get over this hurdle?
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I've been fooled by videos like Simple Pickup and other pickup gurus who go to college campuses and do pickup like it's completely normal. I just don't know if I will ever be able to go on Facebook again the sororities did a decent hack job on me.
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I used the same line for Facebook and similar lines in real life, fine, but the lines I used I detailed in my post and they are totally harmless. Anything I said I said it genuinely and meant it.
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