What is your view on drinking?

Jaja1990 · 2014-11-27T18:27:06+00:00

Alcohol unveils what's already within you: if drinking boosts your confidence, you probably should learn how to relax and let go of worries; if it makes you violent, it's better to look within and solve some inner conflicts.

jacks_not_surprised · 2014-11-27T18:48:48+00:00

Pros :

Gets you into state snaps fingers LIKE THAT! You are outcome independent, you're confident, funny...everything!

Cons :

Expensive(a big one if you're a student)
It will not help with your game. There is a quote "We develop our personality in the state we're constantly in". So if you're constantly drunk, you will develop your drunk personality. All the gains you will make in pickup, will only apply if you're drunk. If you're sober, you're back to square one.
Dependent on it. as I said above. You need to be drunk every time you do pickup. That rules out day game(unless you're an alchoholic).
Health issues. If you're lifting or losing weight, drinking will fuck all that up. Not to mention you will feel your liver's wrath when you grow older.

TheGodfather_1992 · 2014-11-27T17:54:51+00:00

Honestly, I think the best you can do is just relax and try to have fun.

When I go clubbing with friends, I don't drink to be more confident. That's a dangerous path you don't want to go, as it might trick you into believing you're only confident when drunk.

But drinking sometimes gives you fun ideas, and can help have a better time.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-11-27T21:08:59+00:00

It depends on who you are as a person. If you can't hold your shit when you're drunk then you probably shouldn't drink to help your game. If you just loosen up and are more confident when you drink, a couple beers won't hurt. Don't EVER think you need it to sarge though.

I enjoy it because it's what I usually go out for; to get drunk with my friends. I could careless about the girls there, it's just a big bonus to score one. I'm just all about having fun, and girls will pick up on this.

midnightyeti · 2014-11-27T20:25:57+00:00

It's hard not to drink in a club/bar, everybody else is drinking, and most guys need a bit of Dutch courage to talk with girls.

SonofJersey · 2014-11-28T00:09:37+00:00

1 and that's it. You save a ton of money and you have complete composure.

galactic_fury · 2014-11-28T03:26:32+00:00

I've tried doing the club/bar scene without drinking, and its hard, to say the least. I generally try not to rely on alchohol for courage, but sometimes it does help....sometimes. But the main problem in not drinking at clubs/bars is that the bartenders will probably hate you. Probably. Especially, if you're alone, that's more likely.

So I will buy a drink. The most I have from a single bar is 2 beers, maybe three if I'm spacing it out. And I tip generously, because I haven't spent that much (here in Austin, beers are $5-7, so bill comes to ~$15 tops. Tip $3 and you're a fucking hero :-). That usually makes the bartenders much more friendly, and this can really help your game.

So I think buying a couple of drinks is fine, if you want to go to a place regularly.

blackmamba329 · 2014-11-28T08:11:15+00:00

Alcohol is simply a social lubricant, it makes it easier to talk to people. Just don't over do it.

glitch0 · 2014-11-27T23:11:33+00:00

Never. Do not numb yourself, learn to taste the fear and act despite it. Your confidence will be a lot greater if you train yourself to always act despite anxiety, not run away from it.

Title	What is your view on drinking?
Author	gust04
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	November 27, 2014 2:41 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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