How do I own going bald at 21?

Vladula · 2016-12-24T14:54:21+00:00

i been going bald since 15(19atm) and honestly its made me stronger in many ways even tho it sucks its just hair , confidence doesn't come in hair , its in you , i know people with perfect hairlines and are insecure in themselves and can't get girls . meanwhile im thinning and receding and got confidence in myself, who knows bro maybe in the future there will be a cure, just keep improving yourself and dont let it take over you

Kayaa224 · 2016-12-24T15:07:06+00:00

Get a close shave dude, if you don't have massive ears. It looks tough and clean if you've got the right face.

zabts · 2016-12-24T15:51:56+00:00

Shave your head.

truecrisis · 2016-12-24T16:40:59+00:00

I'm buzzed. You'd be amazed at how many girls want to feel your buzzed head.

Xanarxses · 2016-12-24T17:47:08+00:00

Shit bro.

I'm 20 and I go bald because I like wearing a bandanna and the shape of my face/head fits the style. Plus IMO it looks cool and that's more than enough for me. I'm not balding but my hairline is a tad back for someone at 20 years of age.

If the hair is going, well... what can ya do honestly? Own it.

That's all you can do. Y'know stuff like wigs and all that only means you're hiding your insecurity, weakness and "inferiority". But that's only the way it is because you consider it as such.

I look better buzzed or bald than with a full head of hair and I know I could never stick to something normal if I did have longer hair. I've either worn my hair back length long or wacky rivethead/industrial haircuts so being bald is the thing that works for me the best.

I've been at buzz cut level for a couple years now. And I've reached a point where I just have a neurotic fixation on always shaving my head because with a bandanna I start having my hair pop out of it.

Own it. For some dudes it's easier than others but you have to own it.

Kye7 · 2016-12-24T22:37:17+00:00

I started receeding at 16, finished high school with people instantly being able to tell I was balding.

Two months out of HS, I shaved it.

It looked weird for a month or two, but I LOVE it now. I waited "oh just a little longer"... Every time I wanted to shave it.

One day, I had a friend come over and I told him" shave my head.", and he did.

Confidence skyrocketed, no more fucking with my hair, and I love the way it feels.

Do yourself a favor and just shave it. Once the sun hits it a bit, and you sculpt your facial hair (recommended) to a way you like it, hit the gym (you can't be bald and fat. If you're muscular, you'll be masculine as fuck.) you'll look and feel like a million bucks.
Am 20 now. Just some pics I had on my phone right now. https://imgur.com/a/jC2qz

overrule · 2016-12-24T23:04:47+00:00

Shave your head and start going to the gym.

monkeyman114 · 2016-12-25T02:24:02+00:00

Wear those knit caps. Don't drink and smoke, it makes your hair go bye bye.

KawnN · 2016-12-25T17:53:39+00:00

Build muscle and go jhonny sins style

seedarf · 2016-12-26T14:46:27+00:00

shaveshaveshave

been bald since 7 years old. Bald can look great but it has a lot to do with how you take care of the rest of your body. Shave your head, tan a bit (naturally), and work out regularly.

bald is beautiful but fat and bald is no bueno.

SeinoMore · 2016-12-24T16:13:57+00:00

Don't worry about it. While some girls like a full head of hair there are others that find a bald head hot. The first group will become unavailable but the second group will really be into it. Not just older women, younger women too. Hair treatment companies, wig makers, baldness cures etc will try and play on your insecurities. Ignore them. That is how they make money.

Buy a waterproof hair trimmer. Set it to 3mm and let it loose on you're head. You might need someone to help with the back at first but son you'll be able to do it by yourself with confidence and them clippers well last several years for the price of one or two hone tickets.

Title	How do I own going bald at 21?
Author	Lingod
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	December 24, 2016 2:49 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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