I have just realized....

natephant · 2018-10-14T03:17:27+00:00

That’s the real secret.

Maggost · 2018-10-14T05:25:57+00:00

> become a better person

There are a lot of people that they just want to get laid and that's it, yeah, sometimes you can do it. But overall, we have to improve to be the best version of us so we can achieve so many things, including seduction.

RoosterRed · 2018-10-14T07:06:28+00:00

What did you learn?

throwawayferret88 · 2018-10-14T08:01:34+00:00

Because women don’t want, for example, an asshole that kicks puppies but knows the perfect combo of smile, wink, slide into the panties.

They want all the potential a person has inside to be presented as their best self. So in a way, being the best you is the best “seduction”. But there’s no harm in looking for tips on how to unlock your inner you, or to make up for areas you’re lacking in like small talk topics or even anything that puts your own mind at ease.

Source: am woman.

Edit: yeah, thanks for the downvotes..I’ll try to remember not to make supportive messages anymore.

cloutier85 · 2018-10-14T07:08:31+00:00

Well to become more attractive, you need to become a better version of yourself. And I think that applies to most things in life

Testlove808 · 2018-10-18T17:35:01+00:00

I get what you are saying but One thing I hate about self development is the "better you" idea.

There is nothing wrong with you as you are.

Nootist · 2018-10-14T09:33:17+00:00

Way to go! Happiness is the ultimate attractive trait.

Kormarg · 2018-10-14T15:51:40+00:00

Fun thing is I tried to improve for girls, but now i'm improving for the sake of improving.

As a result, i do not seek girls attention and achieved even worse in terms of attractivity but feel much better as a whole still

harriscran · 2018-10-14T17:21:58+00:00

its really a cool subreddit

K3wp · 2018-10-14T23:10:23+00:00

Become the best version of yourself and the girls come to you.

blunt_eastwood · 2018-10-14T10:07:23+00:00

The real victory is the friends you made along the way

queenbiz · 2018-10-14T10:25:50+00:00

Yes! When you are a great person having people attracted by you is just the byproduct. You first need to work on yourself then all the great things come effortlessly

Zammerz · 2018-10-14T14:06:46+00:00

I'm here to learn social skills. It's good for that

Kanozaki · 2018-10-14T12:41:20+00:00

It's because the two go hand in hand. If you build a fulfilling life then you will naturally attract women who want to be in your life.

To all the people struggling with seduction. Focus on your self too, this is why inner game is so important. You can approach a 100 girls a day but if you base your entire existence on finding that lucky one , your going to fail. Cold approaches and what not are still very important to get over the fear of initiating a conversation with a stranger. when you get confident with cold aproaches it transcends into other areas of you life as well.

KingoftheCastle94 · 2018-10-14T14:02:21+00:00

Yes brother

Title	I have just realized....
Author	socpao08
Upvotes	174
Comments	35
Date	October 14, 2018 2:33 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9nzh2i/i_have_just_realized/
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