Girls, my virginity... Should i hide the fact that i'm virgin or should i just let you know it?

Jack__Knife · 2017-05-05T15:33:52+00:00

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IAmVeryAttractive · 2017-05-05T18:02:46+00:00

Do not put that in your Tinder profile. There is nothing to gain from it. You're not on there to share your flaws. You're there to look awesome. Don't tell the girls you're Nickelback when they're getting matched with the Backstreet Boys.

Supergaz · 2017-05-05T16:21:09+00:00

Uhm, answer if it is asked, otherwise don't give a fuck and others won't either

DaygameCoach · 2017-05-05T17:25:27+00:00

Deal with your self-limiting beliefs. If you feel that being a virgin is an issue and that you should be pitied and are a joke, that's all true for you. I wouldn't volunteer info about virginity. Don't put it on tinder. If you are dating a girl and she asks, you don't need to lie though...but most likely she won't ask you about it unless you act super awkward about physicality.

Woujo · 2017-05-05T19:14:07+00:00

Most guys suck at sex so the fact that you're a virgin doesn't mean much.

Tab371 · 2017-05-05T21:47:19+00:00

Virginity can be a bonus, in these disease ridden times you are cherry and safe, some girls like that, knowing they won't get crotch rot from you.

2017-05-06T07:23:28+00:00

Do you think there's any difference between a guy who's never played tennis and a guy who's played tennis once, or twice, or ten times over five years? What about the guitar? Why should sex be any different?

raaaaaaaandywith8as · 2017-05-06T00:30:59+00:00

I ended up telling the girl. Afterwards she told me she wouldn't have known had I not said anything. If you feel confident I don't think you have to.

amyourwhite · 2017-05-06T02:20:38+00:00

Am a guy but I think this is relevant, my girlfriend is happy i am a virgin, because this means she's my first. She's, to put it lightly, overly excited. But we also live in different countries so

Tab371 · 2017-05-06T14:53:05+00:00

I once read on Reddit that girls don't like this kind of pressure. So no, don't tell them beforehand. If it comes up, just evade it with 'it's been a long time' or something like that.

Captain__Backfire · 2017-05-05T20:20:30+00:00

I find it's just like talking about sexual stuff in general - as long as you're not weird/awkward about it, it won't be awkward.

I wouldn't write on your tinder profile that you've never had sex because a lot of girls have it embedded in their minds that sex with someone on Tinder (especially on a first date) is a bad thing, so it's something that's much better to say in person at the right time.

honeynut_beerios · 2017-05-05T22:11:56+00:00

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sergeant_flem · 2017-05-08T03:54:26+00:00

There's no need to advertise the fact that you're a virgin, but you have nothing to gain by lying about it either. Truth be told, nobody can really discern if you're a virgin unless you tell them you are.

When I lost my virginity, the girl didn't even know until I told her just before I was balls deep in her.

Thablazinasian · 2017-05-05T17:43:09+00:00

Don't hide it you'll probably be a little nervous and they could pick up on that

NilacTheGrim · 2017-05-05T16:04:26+00:00

Don't hide it. Be honest.

readonlyuser · 2017-05-05T19:51:26+00:00

There's no need to talk about it until you're getting physical with a girl. Just say you're 'pretty inexperienced'. It's sort of a lie by omission, but you convey the issue without the stigma.

2017-05-05T20:08:06+00:00

Dont tell her.

All these comments are pathetic and beta as shit.

Telling her feelings and your virginity doesnt set the mood for fucking the life out of her.

Lie about your virginity. Hell, lie about date life. Whatever gets you there.

Remember my child, nothing but a peice of meat and they like it that way.

nonouiswrong · 2017-05-05T15:25:06+00:00

Title	Girls, my virginity... Should i hide the fact that i'm virgin or should i just let you know it?
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Date	May 5, 2017 3:19 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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