I just picked up the "Juggler Method" pack from a website that rhymes with "Schemonoid". It includes the book How to Meet and Connect with Women, a collection of his posts on alt.seduction, and the "Charisma Arts" video seminar. I thought I'd write up some notes so you can spend 5 minutes reading the key points and 2 and a half hours doing something more interesting, instead of slogging through the two hour and thirty-five minutes droning video.

Overall Impressions

The Juggler Method seems to focussed on the art of smooth conversation, unlike perhaps Styles' method which seems slightly more direct and "scientific". Juggler emphasizes that the effectiveness of his method depends on fairly subtle twists of dialogue with a foundation of some of the more popular tenets of Pick-up (Opening, Disqualification, etc.). Without further ado

JUGGLER METHOD

4 Steps of Escalation

No interaction

  • Escalate

Open (No more than a few moments of whatever thread you start to open, Juggler says often no more than 45 seconds of opening material)

  • Escalate

Personal Vibe (Commitment and Rapport)

  • Escalate

Sexual Vibe (Statement of Intent)

  • Escalate (If your Statement of Intent was successful, should happen pretty much automatically)

Close

OPEN: Floppsy - Based on the idea that you can anticipate the crux of interest in a social situation (such as an adorably cute bunny named Floppsy that someone has brought to the party) and make a comment about it. Focus - When you anticipate what she's thinking and comment.

When opening at a larger social gathering, use low status groups to manuever your way to the high status group naturally (or if the low status group doesn't know the high status group, use their connection to another low status group that might. Meeting a lot of people at a party can only help you, not hurt you. Be preemptively nice to cock-blockers. Operating in this way (1) indicates you are at the party to have fun, not just hook-up, give you (2) social proof, (3) makes everyone feel comfortable and friendly towards you, and (4) practicing your technique on the low status groups warms you up for the high status ones.

PERSONAL VIBE Commitment - Operates on the principle that most people have the greatest interest in that which they are invested in (i.e. a conversation with higher stakes than the other conversations they've had that evening) - Ask opened ended questions (that take effort to answer) and expect the girl to fill the vacuum. Do not supplicate and help her answer. If she is totally stuck or answers "I don't know", provide what your answer would be if she had asked you the question, but BE COMFORTABLE WITH SILENCE. Never give up in being too charming. Anything that comes up you are interested in.

If she does answer, reward her effort with validation.

Rapport or, "the only way the audience can have fun is if you're having fun".

Rapport should be fun for you, you should be genuinely seeking fun in the conversation generated by your interest.

La technique: - Keep it a balanced interaction (you should be giving 50%, they should be giving 50%) - Use your perspective in relating things, not "The God Perspective" (How you feel and interact, etc.)

Demands - If she demands something of you, make a counter-demand - Do not get flustered - Even if she refuses to do the counter-demand, drop it and continue the conversation unfazed (as if she hadn't asked you anyway) - Cover with a joke - Most importantly, show that you are not bothered by it

Attitude - Be positive. - If they are negative, do not try to change their mind, rather relate, then subtly turn the conversation in a more positive direction.

Presumptions - Presume they have value (Ask "What's a good book you could recommend?" instead of "Can you recommend a good book to me?")

Disqualification - Step 1: Agree with qualification ("You're right, gossiping is bad") - Step 2: Put yourself in the maligned catergory ("Of course, I could do better- I have done some gossiping myself")

Information - Find out who they are at the event with. The earlier you can get away with slipping it into conversation the better. - If they are in a relationship, try to relate to it with an anecdote about one of your past relationships, keep the dialogue going.

SEXUAL VIBE - Once attraction and rapport are created, make a...

Statement of Intent (S.O.I.) - Step up and play your hand. You might be able to close based on attraction and rapport alone, but S.O.I. makes things transparent. - 90% of S.O.I.'s fail because you have no built up enough rapport or gotten enough information

CLOSE - Give her your phone for her to put your number in. Then call her phone so she is not answering a mysterious number later. - If she doesn't answer, leave a quick message to tell her you will call back later. Do not ask her to call you back. - Texts and email: Keep it pithy

Anyway, that's what I got out of the over two hours of Juggler in a suit droning on. I hope this provokes some discussion and comparison with other techniques...