So I first posted about this 7 days ago: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/b7zib/stupid_question_i_know_went_on_a_first_date_with/

My neighbor, B, and I went on a second date at a nice restaurant (it wasn't a terribly expensive/formal place, but definitely a nice atmosphere and good food) and had fun. We talked non-stop, more her than me. She told me about her family, her best friends from high school and college, more about her job, etc. She commented a few times on how nice the place was, too. Essentially it was like the first lunch date, relaxed, comfortable, nice, but over dinner with a glass of wine.

So we drive back to our building, walk up to her door, and comes the part at which I suck: we talked for a few minutes, and I could feel my heart racing, and as we're about to part ways, I leaned in for a hug, but no kiss. Now I realize most of you may say, you should have kissed her, you're in the friend zone, etc., but I don't care. I'm still trying to figure out if she likes me, and I was still trying to figure that out for myself. I also asked her out again then, and she said yeah, but not over the weekend because she was going skiing, and staying in a hotel Saturday night/skiing Sunday.

Well, I thought about the date a bunch over the weekend, and decided to ask her out again tonight. I went down to her place, went in and had a crazy story from work today; so I told her that, and we talked about the oscars and other stuff for awhile, and I eventually asked her if she wanted to do something.

So she figured out a day, and I said she should decide what to do this time, but then after a minute I mentioned the idea of cooking her dinner and watching a movie. She said that sounded great.

And yes, I realize that through all of this, I could just tell her I have a crush on her or something. But I'm too scared, and only I can work that out for myself; but yes, it seems obvious to me.

So we have a date set for Wednesday. And I realize, again, that, yeah, she may think I'm not interested in her like I am if I don't make a move. I'll just have to get my nervousness out of the way and kiss her.

What I'm curious for is whether people think she's interested. Yes, when I lay out of the facts it seems like she does; but I don't have great self-esteem; I don't know what people think of me; and I'm too afraid to ask. So I'm asking reddit, what do you think.

Thanks.