Sedditors,what personal approach did you find to be effective in improving your own inner game?

mynewname · 2010-06-14T04:12:46+00:00

Meditation. You start forgiving yourself for being human, for not overpressuring yourself to approach when you're not in the mood.

daveguy · 2010-06-14T20:49:57+00:00

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strongoaktree · 2010-06-14T04:43:44+00:00

I always drink 1 beer by myself before I go out. I then read a few pages of the game, run through a couple routines in my head, get a game plan for how I am going to open my night. I then do quick scanning of cold reading, palmistry, and personality tests, or cool things to tell people. Then, I listen to the first 10-15 minutes of Jethro Tull's "Thick as a Brick"

Happy music only. I force myself to smile when I'm all by myself until its time to see people.

I am now psyched and in the proper gaming mode.

antioche · 2010-06-14T09:30:06+00:00

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takatori · 2010-06-14T09:03:57+00:00

It's funny that everyone here seems to think there's some magic set of techniques or skills that you should learn and train with and follow. It all comes down to getting to know how people think, in general not just in the pickup scene. How can you do that by following a set of rules and over-thinking every step along the way?

People can see when you're throwing game, they can see when you are trying too hard, they can see when you're thinking step-by-step by the book. It doesn't work. What works is being natural. The only advantage any of you are going to get from any of the techniques in here is self-confidence. And if you have that, you won't need a guide book.

Be your damn self, be happy with yourself, and it will come to you.

Sublomino · 2010-06-14T04:49:47+00:00

Meditation is great, there are lots of places that will give free meditation classes. Meditation is proven to make you more non-reactive.

Visualizing your outcome, as well as visualizing all the practical steps along the way to your outcome, improves performance.

Keeping a list of all the qualities that you are looking for in a woman, and going over it again from time to time. This will keep you focused on what's really most important to you, to avoid wasting your time on women who you won't be happy with anyway.

Just getting out and making an effort even if it fails, and accepting failure. I think that improves inner game a lot, even though it really hurts at first. :( When things are down, you have less to lose and more incentive to try and get back up again. :) And you learn that you will be OK when you fail.

2010-06-14T12:52:02+00:00

For me, it was simply reminding myself that the worst thing that could happen is she says "no". The worlds not going to explode, the sun isn't going to burn out, and God's not going to smite me. Just a simple "no" is as bad as it's gonna get. Why the hell not ask her?

notgeorgeclooney · 2010-06-14T22:00:32+00:00

Working out is a reliable confidence booster.

antioche · 2010-06-17T13:53:42+00:00

Talking to endless girls

DrTwitch · 2010-06-15T13:48:13+00:00

Gaining experience of the good and bad and realizing that there is so much more to look forward to and so little that is as bad as you thought it would be. Gaining experience is where it is at.

Title	Sedditors,what personal approach did you find to be effective in improving your own inner game?
Author	antioche
Upvotes	7
Comments	29
Date	June 14, 2010 3:57 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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