Is there a subreddit for dating advice for women?

HITEKK · 2010-08-20T17:58:36+00:00

http://www.davidwygant.com/womens-products.html (check out his blog, specially the category Attract and Approach Men) he's pretty well known around seddit, also Youtube

http://pickuppodcast.com/author/kim/

http://www.keystobliss.com/special/ their podcast

http://www.seductionlist.com/category/pua-blog/women/

http://www.femalepickupartist.com/

Edit: What's up with the influx of females lately trying to get into "pick-up"? ;)
also added Women's resources to the "sticky"

2010-08-20T17:58:30+00:00

I want to find a man who is the total package.

Then you need to be the total package. You don't attract what you want, you attract what you are. Work on yourself and everything else will fall into place. Become the kind of person that your dream guy would want.

P.S. the only difference between a PUA and a "normal" guy is that the PUA is more conscious of the interaction and generally more successful. They both want the same thing - sex, and they'll both do the same thing (whatever it takes) to get it.

mynewname · 2010-08-20T19:48:13+00:00

I'll just repost what I posted before:

All humor aside, it really is simpler for women to pick up guys than for guys to pick up girls. All material is really essentially geared either way. The difference is:

Men don't need pretense for going back to a girl's place,
Don't need to be affirmed that they're not sluts for sleeping with a girl on the first day
Don't have all those other apparent barriers to short-circuiting the whole thing to just sex

Hence, a lot of techniques a guy needs to make a woman feel comfortable and attracted to him and not slutty are overgaming when it comes to men.

It really is simple for women, you're inherently better at social cues. We men need pick up material to catch up with you. But here are the basics:

Be attractive. Men are far more superficial than women according to every study. Fortunately, being attractive is not just a matter of the body you're born with but far more: how you dress, do your hair, do your make up, etc... Consult with a friend who will be honest with you about how you present yourself. I know a girl who would look so much better with a makeover, and all her friends think so too, but they haven't told her because she hasn't asked.
Be fun, positive, playful, silly. This is 95% of being accessible for flirting to a guy. I know a lot of girls who have perfected playing girly when they want (think pouty Britney in "... Baby One More Time".) This rarely goes wrong.
Wear at least one notable or unusual item when you go out that gives guys that like you an excuse to talk to you (e.g. necklace, hat, sports team shirt)
If you catch a guy looking at you, even for a moment, chances are he's into you, which means all you have to do is indicate interest
TOUCH. Touch his arms, wrists, neck, face, knee, whatever.. as a natural part of conversation. We term this touching KINO and it's very effective both at conveying interest and building attraction.
Make him think he's seducing you. Be impressed by whatever manliness he's displaying or talking about. Guys love to have the feeling of power and will be that much less shy about making the first move when they do.

cbraga · 2010-08-20T18:04:08+00:00

repost

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d218e/is_there_a_seduction_thats_aimed_at_women/

RedErin · 2010-08-20T18:12:44+00:00

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sockthepuppetry · 2010-08-20T20:53:17+00:00

good way to spot pick up artists from a mile away

I hope you're not just learning this stuff so you can shoot down guys. People in general (not just women) are better to be around when they play along with things rather than spending their time trying to call out others.

narcism · 2010-08-20T20:32:56+00:00

I'll help. You sound like a bitch. Stop being a bitch.

HITEKK · 2010-08-20T17:44:41+00:00

Well I think it's way easier for you. You basically just have to walk up to a guy and ask him for help on something, I doubt any guy would refuse, and escalate from there. You don't even have to know kino and stuff, since we're supposed to do it.

If you have any AA, well I guess it would be basically what we do, talk to strangers as much as you possibly can. And I don't think there's such a subreddit, but I may be disinformed.

philosarapter · 2010-08-20T20:35:52+00:00

Women don't exactly need dating advice. Just be pretty.

Title	Is there a subreddit for dating advice for women?
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