[FR] F-close on the first date with a HB6. Kino issues, and are museums shitty for first dates?

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-01-10T03:45:02+00:00

I think museums are great for dates, but then, I am the artist type. A museum is like a hundred mini-dates, you're always bouncing to new locations: different galleries, gift shops, cafes, etc. But you want to know the best museum date? An exhibit opening. This is especially true of art gallery openings. I remember in LA, Thursday night was always opening night. In a few hours, you could go see 4 or 5 gallery openings in the same area around Hollywood, and have some free wine and cheese at each place. And you hang around with the artsy, cool crowd, which can mean anything from scummy underground artists to black-tie arts patrons.

FLPUA · 2011-01-10T04:57:16+00:00

Sounds like you did everything right, my man. Kino always helps. I think museums are great first dates, especially if you can find a dark room like at MoMA or the Natural History museum in NYC, to get a little privacy. Personally, I never have a problem talking about the art, it's so stimulating. One question: Did you pay for her ticket/meal?

chumpta · 2011-01-10T05:43:21+00:00

when we were saying goodbye, she gave me this look that seemed to mean, "So are you going to ask for my number or what?" so I kind of half-heartedly did.

hahahaha was it in your tone/body language? experiment with asking for phone numbers this way when you actually ARE interested.

Multiple locations: The way I think about this is, the way we subjectively experience time has as lot do with the number of meaningful experiences, not the number of minutes elapsed. An hour spent at each of three locations probably will result in a lot more meaningful experiences than three hours (or four even) spent at any single one of them, and so it feels like more "time," in the good-for-getting-laid sense. (Like, "I've been hanging out with this guy long enough that I feel comfortable doing _____ now.") I forget who to credit for this idea, TofuTofu?

Mystery, actually.

you did a good job here. not a great job, but a good job. imo a museum is a great date idea. your kino opportunities were obvious to you. it's always better to be facing the same way, as opposed to towards each other - you want to be sharing the experience, have touch feel natural, and be able to converse (hence no movies). and actually it's not so much which way you face, but usually facing towards each other implies a table in the middle.

there was resistance here and there, tbh it was probably because you were beating around the bush. you were at a cafe, good, museum, good, and she was ready to go back with you after that.

2011-01-10T09:24:33+00:00

Mediocre kino is better than no kino at all

Sometimes we forget that there exist some girls who want to fuck us and we only need to avoid screwing it up, they'll comply to almost everything.

I mean, sure, for HB8-10s we need to exhibit a huge amount of strategies, but for regular women, being alpha and funny + kino is probably enough

takatori · 2011-01-10T14:56:19+00:00

I have gotten laid after museums sooooooo many times. Modern art is best.

cheddarchexmix · 2011-01-10T20:15:26+00:00

Excellent first FR, it's great to see a newbie actually read, understand, and apply the most important concepts from Seddit! Good work. Kino is extremely important to women - they tend to be much more non-verbal communicators than men - so start practicing. Touch everyone sounds creepy at first, but it's a great exercise and will totally open your eyes to kino. I was oblivious to it for many years until I discovered PUA stuff, it really works wonders.

TofuTofu · 2011-01-10T21:56:38+00:00

I'm dying for a chance to use TofuTofu's "OMG I hate you... hug Aww, I can't stay mad at you!!"

This is literally my favorite "move" in all of pickup. It's addicting lol.

I hope you get to use it soon.

Great FR! I love your analysis as you went through it. Keep at it and you'll start figuring out the little nuances of all the theory that floats around seddit.

Congrats on the sex!

Title	[FR] F-close on the first date with a HB6. Kino issues, and are museums shitty for first dates?
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Date	January 10, 2011 1:38 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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