[FR] 2+ hours of LMR before kinda-sorta-not-really f-close.

cheddarchexmix · 2011-01-27T00:43:11+00:00

Yikes, that's a bit of an annoying ordeal. I'm sure some of the guys here will appreciate seeing the mortal side of TofuTofu :)

Obviously you blew past a lot of early warning signs. The only thing you maybe did wrong was the initial reverse psychology line, sounds like she bought it too seriously?

I have been trying to get better at early warning signs, although my problem area is better early-on filtering out of women I'm going to find annoying / too high-maintenance. But probably like what happened to you this night, sometimes circumstances / lack of abundance mentality get the better of me and I just push forward even when my spidey sense is tingling.

The_Cake_Is_A_Lie · 2011-01-27T01:23:52+00:00

My take: I wouldn't hold it against you since the girl was clearly weird, but you could have done it. Your fatal mistake was taking her to climax before slipping the banana.

Most people would think that's not a problem because no girl that's worth the trouble would refuse to return the favor, but the fact is there are girls who are selfish or crazy or just plain confused but are still hot. I had an American chick do a similar thing to me, after she reached climax she suddenly remembered her long distance bf again.

BTW, I'd say if a girl goes to bed with you in the first date then by definition she isn't "prudish". ;-) Semantics apart, (as thesacred or yourself remarked the other day) Japanese girls rarely shave, if they do it they're sexually active if not downright slutty. I'd guess she's been pumped and dumped once too much and wants to protect herself. The mention of "German strictness" is an indication she wants to do the old thing of withholding sex in exchange for a relationship (as all "good girls" do) though she's obviously botched it by doing it in a half-hearted way.

thesacred · 2011-01-27T02:05:07+00:00

I'll never understand why some girls will actually go into the love hotel with you and then start lmr. It's like, you just came with me into a love hotel! Who are you fooling?

alexryane · 2011-01-27T01:25:10+00:00

The concept of love hotels is insane. It kind of seems 'weird' for a girl to go to this place with you, which is basically a sex room, to not have sex with you. I mean it would be more normal to just go back to your place.

When I invite a girl back to mine there's at least the pretence of innocence :P

Back on topic, it sounds like you were a bit out of sync with her. You were doing things that work with other girls but miss the point with this one. I know the feeling!

yokhai · 2011-01-27T16:05:17+00:00

Dont call her prudish man. Some girls just don't like to bed guys that quickly. i mean you are one of the most genuine and fun PUA around here but you let your hubris blind you to the fact that, some women don't fuck, no matter how many negs, flowers, DHV or money you have.

There is nothing you could have done.

Also, i think you mean Brazilian.

As far as the follow up, she is self validating that you won't fuck and chuck her and that last night didn't maker her a slut. Please follow up with her. This will make or break this girl.

I'd say got out on few lunch dates, nothing romantic, and show that you are interested in her personality. Then after a few times just tell her that you two are pretty incompatible and it would be best to just be friends.

She needs to understand that what she did wasn't immoral or slutty. And you have all the skills to do that. Also the LJBF might send her over the edge to fucking your brains out.

Either way, go easy on this one.

07SS · 2011-01-27T17:57:08+00:00

Nothing that hasn't been said before, she was trying to avoid the "fuck and chuck"/"pump and dump", IMO. She probably feels a little ashamed and is texting you for, like you said, validation.

I'd assume you'll get farther next time if you play it like you aren't looking for a "fuck and chuck"/"pump and dump".... lol, I love those terms.

thesacred · 2011-01-27T09:03:41+00:00

Hahahah, Crying at the puppies. I dont think I would have been able to contain myself. I'd of probably had to eject her at that point on principle/disgust.

The_Cake_Is_A_Lie · 2011-01-27T12:51:20+00:00

She's got a brazillian? For a Japanese chick that doesn't say inexperienced

maxormis · 2011-01-27T16:38:51+00:00

Reminds me of the badest sex I ever had, where I walked 45 min from my home to hers through the cold, arrived super frozen, made out with her and could'nt get it up at first and she only wanted to to missionary, not blow me and not have me lick or even finger her. Made me feel like trying to bring her to orgasm while trapped in Stephen Hawkings body. Funny thing after I somehow manage to get inside of her for like 2 minutes, she does a little mini moan and decides now it's done and it's time for cuddling.

My take is some girls just don't know what good sex is and hence don't appreciate it when you try to have some.

Title	[FR] 2+ hours of LMR before kinda-sorta-not-really f-close.
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Date	January 26, 2011 11:35 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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