I'm fucking going for it.

ImKumarYo · 2011-04-18T20:26:47+00:00

A suggestion would be to not let this day determine your whole life. That's fucking stupid.

Seriously though, a key to getting what you want is not being outcome dependent. Sounds like you'll be devestated if she shoots you down and that's not a healthy mentality.

Edit: on my phone, I'll try to write something a little more constructive when I get to the comp

huckfinn68 · 2011-04-18T20:38:42+00:00

Well I am pretty sure this will NOT determine your life unless you commit suicide after being rejected. I wish you best of luck and a summer full of romance and sex.

aromero · 2011-04-18T22:29:59+00:00

Looks like youre going for a hail mary! One peice of advice, DONT LET HER KNOW YOURE THROWIN A HAIL MARY! Honestly, you shouldve talked to her sooner than waiting for the last moment. Most girls i know dont like it when guys wait til last minute, shows desperation.

Bercilak · 2011-04-18T20:30:36+00:00

Hell yes! Something that I haven't tried but seems ideal for a last-day-of-class type thing: chat for her with a couple minutes to build some interest, then get her on an instadate. Tell her you're going to get ice cream to celebrate the last day of class and she can come with if she likes, or something like that!

There are more excuses to kino and escalate to build some real attraction outside of a school building. Then it's less likely she'll flake on a later date than if you just got her number and texted.

edpp901 · 2011-04-18T21:45:45+00:00

Good luck

Don't get too tense or whatever during the conversation with her - relax

Take a few deep breaths if need be

If this doesn't work out, who knows who will be waiting for you in the future? Don't keep just one girl in your sight, but that doesn't mean to think about different girls at the same time; just go easy with it

Aaannddddd.... Good luck again :)

phos4us · 2011-04-18T21:50:30+00:00

Just chill out and don't worry about it. It'll tense you up and you're weary to catch one-itis b4 Wednesday. I'm in a similar situation, I really dig this one girl at my Uni but there's plenty excellent of options all around us so things go well sweet, they don't, onto the next one.

MoussakaMan · 2011-04-18T21:00:37+00:00

This reminds me of my years in high school. I had a years long crush on one of the pretty girls in class. I never did anything about it during my entire duration in high school and in hindsight, that is much worse than getting embarrassingly rejected. Fear of a bad outcome can be crippling.

Like ImKumarYo said, it's not the beginning or end of the world. You're placing too much importance on one potential relationship. Don't sweat it because win or lose, you'll be glad that you took your chances and taking a shot now will make it much easier for next time.

PUAmindset · 2011-04-18T22:37:08+00:00

When I say "This whole day determines my life." I was speaking superficially. If she says, yes, who knows where this may lead. That's all I mean. I'm not going to kill myself if she doesn't.

Drifts · 2011-04-19T03:39:39+00:00

Step 1) Commit that you are going to do this no matter what, so that in your mind backing out is literally not an option.

Step 2) Enter "I'm just gonna have fun with this interaction" mindframe.

seanm27 · 2011-04-19T04:38:12+00:00

I'm in the same boat dude. Let her slip away from me last term and I felt like SHIT. Happens that we have another class together this term but she graduating so it's gotta be now!

Title	I'm fucking going for it.
Author	PUAmindset
Upvotes	7
Comments	16
Date	April 18, 2011 8:17 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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