Willing to compile a bunch of motivation for those having trouble approaching. You interested?

AndreiAndTheOakTree · 2011-06-18T17:27:48+00:00

Oh hellz yeah. I'll fish some up for you too. Group effort?

leitey · 2011-06-19T03:22:55+00:00

How about this:

If you don't approach, you will not succeed, and you will go home alone. This is the only outcome.

If you do approach, you might fail, and you could move on to the next girl. You might end up going home alone, but you have lost nothing.

If you do approach, you might not succeed, but you might enjoy the conversation, get experience, or make a new friend, and improve your social status.

If you do approach, you might succeed, and you might close. The only way to find out is to try.

bl1ndside · 2011-06-19T05:45:03+00:00

He who hesitates, masturbates.

sed_mike · 2011-06-18T21:02:02+00:00

Yes please! Also, if there is a way to make it step-by-step, that would be extremely helpful. I like having instructions.

Kminardo · 2011-06-18T18:58:23+00:00

Uh. Duh. :)

ProgressPUA · 2011-06-19T10:03:46+00:00

Approaching I find is the hardest part of the seduction, especially "Cold opens". I'm in the mind set that if you don't approach you'll regret it later and hindsight isn't half a bitch, so, instead just try.

The worst that can happen is that she says no and you're at the same place you started at, except with a little more self confidence!

DutchPUA · 2011-06-18T17:35:49+00:00

Sounds great!

redrabatabador · 2011-06-18T18:12:59+00:00

Do it!

notlurkinganymoar · 2011-06-19T04:02:04+00:00

My favorite one is probably the "don't be discouraged by rejection, you win by approaching" model.

WumboJumbo · 2011-06-19T06:27:43+00:00

Just fucking talk to her.

igacek · 2011-06-18T18:07:19+00:00

r/GetMotivated

2011-06-18T22:56:37+00:00

Please do

CharismaWithaK · 2011-06-19T01:27:36+00:00

PLEASE.

2011-06-18T20:16:14+00:00

Yeah, this would be nice.

My AA is becoming more manageable and one of the big things that helped was having a stock opener to use every time

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-06-19T01:16:20+00:00

[permanently deleted]

meinator · 2011-06-19T06:00:05+00:00

Or all you guys could move to Asia where women throw themselves on you and you can have your pick of any girl you want without having to do any work. Asia girls fuck better than any western girl I was ever with (over 300). That's what I did and my life has been so much better ever since.

essendoubleop · 2011-06-18T22:22:20+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Title	Willing to compile a bunch of motivation for those having trouble approaching. You interested?
Author	seizeopportunities
Upvotes	117
Comments	37
Date	June 18, 2011 5:02 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/i30lr/willing_to_compile_a_bunch_of_motivation_for/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/willing-to-compile-a-bunch-of-motivation-for-those.1319433 https://theredarchive.com/post/1319433

Comments