Taking a break from game

ImKumarYo · 2011-06-27T00:59:25+00:00

It doesn't matter what you look like. Stop thinking that and get over yourself because your inner game is going to reflect in your outer game.

There are tons of ugly, fat and short dudes with awesome women around them.

puaCurveBall · 2011-06-27T22:28:43+00:00

It doesn't matter how impressive my career is, it doesn't matter how much game I have, how much I make women laugh, how much we have our hands on each other. Women my age don't want to sleep with a 12-year-old.

This is bullshit. I've seen 4'9 guys fclose, trannies fclose, wheelchair fclose, hunchback dwarves fclose, 400lb women fclose, 400lb guy fclose, and asians guys that look like 9yr old girls flcose, RELIABLY

Your limiting beliefs are holding you back, not your voice or looks.

Osiiris · 2011-06-27T01:25:00+00:00

Bro you should not complain about looking young. I'm 21 now, and people who meet me tell me I look like I'm 30-35(had one guy ask for my drivers licence as proof). It's all about how you carry yourself. If you walk and act like a 12 year old, that's what they will see.

Don't worry too much about your looks, i used to let my beard grow, then I thought if I shaved it I would look younger, which I did but my success didn't improve and my face was cold. Then I found the right amount of trim, which didn't give me a boost because I looked better, but I had more confidence. As long as you don't look like you're lost looking for your mommy your inner game should take care of the rest.

chalengr · 2011-06-27T01:28:26+00:00

I have a similar problem, though not as bad as your case. You can still get girls if you look 16, if your game is good enough, you just need more game than other guys to overcome that initial resistance. Women operate on emotions, not logic--her logic is gonna say "He looks too young" but if you can blast through that logic with good game, she'll be defenseless against her emotional and sexual attraction to you.

heckz · 2011-06-27T01:29:45+00:00

so two things I'm going to address here 1. that you can easily gain some weight and become more manly and 2. your attitude towards things

so I'm about your same height but I used to weight about 15 pounds less than you, and i felt and looked small and puny. I started working out using Starting Strength and eating like a mad man, after a year or two I weighed 35 pounds more than you, I then looked and felt like a man. Lifting heavy (Squats, deadlifts) will boost your testosterone, likely lower your voice and possible start putting some hair on your chest.

But the thing is you can't have the attitude that you need this or that in order to have women. This the same excuse people say that they will go earn a shit ton of money first then live their life. by the end you realize you missed out on a lot of things and also in terms of game, you will end up physically being the person you want to be without having the personality to match it up. and you will have some ego thing where you feel entitled because of what you put in, even though you weren't practicing "game". Gaining muscle takes constant progress and commitment, so does getting better with women.

Also if it helps at all, I used to know this kid in my hometown that had the biggest baby face and smooth face, and to top it off he had some kind of disorder where his voice was EXTREMELY high pitched. Yet everytime I saw him there would be several girls hanging out with him. Literally never saw him without a girl. Something about how he was so confident in himself and didn't give a fuck that he was so unmanly.

ImKumarYo · 2011-06-27T01:32:52+00:00

I'm between 5'8 and 5'9 and was 140 back in Nov. Crossfit 4 times a week + the GOMAD diet (check r/fitness) and I'm now at 153, almost all muscle.

2011-06-27T01:39:16+00:00

Just date younger girls. Do you live close to a highschool?

OK seriously though, you can dress and act the part. I looked 16 when I was 21 too. But to be fair, I didn't get good with girls until I was 24 (and looked 17 or 18). Also I still only weigh 125 lbs.

First, dress the part. Dress like a confident man. I know an asian guy who looks 16 so he wears suits to the clubs, or at least a blazer. Wear the little things that would lead people to think you're older. Dress in style.

Next, go to the gym regularly. Working out not only builds more muscle, but also raises your testosterone levels. And it just makes you feel great. Make a habit of it. It will definitely improve your self confidence.

Edit: also your haircut. Make sure your haircut is in style and not something a 16 year old would have. Use product in it if you have to.

T3hJ3hu · 2011-06-27T02:30:46+00:00

Aim lower or aim younger. All you really need is one victory to turn that frown upside-down.

caged_animal · 2011-06-27T01:22:39+00:00

If you want a more accurate, context-independent age estimate, I'd say I look 16.

Jrix · 2011-06-27T02:41:46+00:00

Fuck your genes? Fuck your vegetarian diet.

Title	Taking a break from game
Author	caged_animal
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	June 27, 2011 12:48 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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