I have seen a few very well known guys on seddit giving well intentioned advice to women on here based off what works for men. However, I believe my friend's case will show you how it is different for women.
She is a Korean HB5, who is absolutely fearless and follows all the advice about approaching the hottest guys (HG9??) she sees. She flirts with the guys and behaves like a natural male PUA. She has a very high 'success' rate of sleeping with the guys. She has slept with 300+ guys in the past year. If a one night stand is what women are looking for then it certainly is good advice.
So why do I say it is not the same for women?
She personally doesn't want this. She wants the guys to call her back. She (says) she wants a long term relationship with any of them. And what has happened is that absolutely NONE of the guys ever call her back.
Maybe: a) she is really bad in bed or more likely b) guys subconsciously, despite all the equality stuff we are told, are not looking for long term relationships with women who go to bed quickly. Personally I know this is true for me.
I have seen women propose marriage after one night stands. How many guys would do the same thing? If a long term relationship is what you are seeking then some of the steps need changing!
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