Gonna have to be a bit vague here because I'm pretty sure I have some RL connection with other sedditors that I don't want to "know". Complex. My FR's are out of order right now because I have reddit ADD and there are always more kittens to look at.

Anyway so I meet up with some randoms from an online meeting site to checkout a restaurant in town. Me and HB6 and AFC1,2,3 are just chilling by the bar when HB8 and HB7 walk in. HB8 is my target.

Always Introduce Yourself First

So my new "thing" is to always introduce yourself to any newcomers or anybody coming into the group you are with. Kinda sets yourself up as the leader right away just by being friendly and warm.

Introduce myself to HB7 and HB8 and just start friendly banter, jokes, stories, whatever. Nothing special here. Just be interested and interesting at the same time. What do you do? Why do you like doing that? I bet you use those pretty eyes to get what you want? This place is cool, what part is your favorite?

Be a leader of men So we all sit down to dinner, me leading the pack of course, and I make sure to casually and very stealthily direct to the group to where to sit. Just head nods or welcoming arms. HB8 and I are sitting next to each other. I try and get in the middle of tables too, easy to engage everybody. Really surprising how little it takes to get people to physically do what you want with subtle body language cues.

Everybody is chatting, AFCs are being boring. I make it a point to talk to HB8 target more than anybody else but always release and engage the group. No dancing monkeying here.

Investment, Yes, Perfect HB8 starts to open me during moments of silence. This is called her investing in the engagement for the newbies here. I reject all other IoIs ( except mirroring body language ) as almost meaningless. But when she starts to invest into the interaction you are in.

So now I'm kino'ing, making attraction obvious "wow I like your hair" ( I think this is important ) and just being awesome. Still leaving pauses to calibrate and build tension. Voice gets slower, deeper, smiley is sly.

We eventually leave dinner and I decide for the group we are hanging out at the attached bar. Quickly isolate target from the other 7 in the group. AFC's are like "wtf is happening" when they get stuck talking to each other, can see it in their faces. Awesome.

Fav kino move My new fav early kino move is "check that out over there" grab her hand, make your hands point together, get the arms next to each other and your face over her shoulder by hers. For bonus points breath and speak slightly into her ear. This almost gets me aroused. So simple yet effective.

I teach her some salsa ( learn to do basic dances, girls love it ) and go in for a kclose which is rejected. Don't care, don't react. Keep going. Don't bounce right away, maybe you just didn't build up enough comfort If she doesn't walk away you are still good.

# Close By Proposing Plans After this I tell her I'm going to a class on later in the week to learn some new dance stuff, "want to go?". She says yes, perfect time to # close.

So what I try to do is always have some plans that are cool and awesome around the corner so I can immediately invite girls to them. I think this weeds out flakes and makes it so you don't care if they do. Worst case is I sarge which was my plan anyway.

We go to leave and I live a few blocks away, she offers to drive me home instead of having me walk. Ask her to come up and check out my awesome and non-traditional pet, no dice, gotta work. Go in for the k-close in the car. Boomchacalaka. K-close.

Part 2

Meet up with this girl 2 nights later at a bar I'm familiar with ( bartenders know me ) with friends of mine. Get her in the parking lot by her car. Kept bouncing up and down the ladder until I was in position to steal 3rd but couldn't get past that for about 15 minutes. Got bored and frustrated to I slapped her ass goodbye.

I really fuck up with needy texts the following couple of days and inviting her to too many things I think so she flaked on the date I setup at dinner before. My new stance at texting is "don't" unless you are setting up a date. Pretty sure I screwed up here. Live and learn.

Big take away I know text lightly now and gotten better with a couple of techniques that have been working for me. ( outlined in bold above ).

I'll see her again at another event soon. Going to try and re-engage without mentioning my flaky needy text week at all. ;)

TL;DR #KClose girl in group setting, meet up with her later and defile her in a parking lot, fuck up by being a needy idiot via texting**