Appropriately Inappropriate Sex

wesno · 2011-09-08T23:35:46+00:00

This follows Robert Cialdini's The Psychology of Persuasion. To get someone to willingly comply with an initially outlandish request, first ask for something even more outrageous.

WolfInTheField · 2011-09-08T23:04:14+00:00

Upboat. Shit's hilarious.

CunningLanguageUser · 2011-09-09T08:27:14+00:00

The thing is, when the logistics are bad (and they often are when travelling alone) I quite often do start to go for it in a rather public place - airports or trains in particular. After we already put our tongues in each others mouth and have felt each other up pretty good of course, earlier would be insane. So I'll try to discretely finger her or at least rub her on her clothes, because I really am so turned on I forget where we are.

And even though she's obviously turned on as well, I've found that her explicitly having to stop me (as the article says this is to be expected, no biggie) often seems to trigger a 'whoa there' in her head, like she suddenly realizes she's making out with a guy she just met. After which she starts to back off. Gone atmosphere.

In one instance I went from meeting to kissing to hot makeout to friendzoned, all over the course of like 3 hours (plane flight :)). Ok, I did eventually turn it from friendzone back to hot makeout again, but still frustrating.

So, that “Sorry, you’re so sexy, I forgot where we were.” line may be just the missing link that fixes this. I'll definitely try that out!

LeSpatula · 2011-09-09T11:22:56+00:00

I always do it that way. Make her hot and she will go with you. One time, I made this and asked her if she wants to come home with me. She said no, she can't, she has to go home with her friends. I said, okay, and turned to go away. Then she said: "Hey, were are you going to? You come with us!"

glassuser · 2011-09-09T07:01:28+00:00

I hate that site's fly-in ad. My adblock completely misses it, and it covers text. Is that content hosted elsewhere?

Title	Appropriately Inappropriate Sex
Author	unsexyMF
Upvotes	28
Comments	12
Date	September 8, 2011 9:56 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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