Lifestyle Excuses

heckz · 2011-09-27T02:56:07+00:00

We just need a bot to autopost practicalpickup to seddit. All their articles are gold. Love that seddit got called out too.

cody_au · 2011-09-27T07:41:03+00:00

You’re just going to attract the type and quality of girl who is fine with a guy looking like shit — which is most likely less attractive girls.

Someone still trapped in the mentality that you need to do something special to attract a high quality woman.

No, but it’s still important

Important if you want to use it as a fallback excuse for why some guys can't get the girls they're going for, when you're either not skilled enough to point out the actual things they're doing wrong, or marketing a product where doing things properly isn't possible and so everything has to be sanitised and generalised.

If you want fewer and higher quality women or even a girlfriend or a wife, then lifestyle, looks and fashion are going to be more important than game.

"I don't think fashion is more important than game." Then a few lines later, "Looks and fashion are going to be more important than game." So wrong. So, so wrong.

My point in that article (as well as the gym article) was that these are things that are easily changed with large benefits, so there’s really no excuse to NOT doing them.

The reason not to do them is that they're an excuse to a false problem; they take time, effort, and money, for a payoff that isn't related to what they're being marketed for (seducing a woman). If you want any of those things, by all means go ahead. If you want to do it because it helps you attract women who aren't unattractive, you're doing it wrong.

Both of these “problems” are merely excuses in disguise.

Which is exactly what talking about lifestyle as something important does, it creates excuses. Not only did you invent the problem, you invented the solution, then went back and called anyone who uses that solution as someone who's just avoiding the problem. Nice circular logic to confuse and sell products.

As always, your biggest enemy here is your own mind: over-complicating matters, convincing yourself the need for perfection at something rather than competence at everything.

So the three things that you need, but don't really need (just need a little), to solve a problem you invented (you need these things to get the right kind of woman as defined by the author), are actually excuses, and also over complicating the matter.

Anyone reading this stuff and thinking it is great, deserves whatever they can get out of it - nothing.

Title	Lifestyle Excuses
Author	unsexyMF
Upvotes	35
Comments	15
Date	September 26, 2011 3:59 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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