Overall, I had a really good time last night.

Headed to the club with a couple friends, met up a couple more when we got in... but didnt hang around too long. I was ready to meet some cute boys :)

We got in around 11pm, and the dancefloor was slowing getting filled. I like to check out the guys who stand at the tables (because the dancefloor is too dark and I cant tell if he's cute or not). Btw, is there a HB - scale for guys?! We'll refer to him as Adam. I saw him looking at me, and gave him a second of eye-contact, but move on to see what else the club has to offer. Nothing catches my attention. Met up my friends for a sec, he's chatting with a group of HB's - so I introduced myself and tell them I'll be back. Adam hasn't moved, so I approached with "So you're just gonna look at me and not talk to me?" He carried the conversation, we exchanged names and moved onto the dancefloor. Not much conversation here.. he's been smoking (turn off for me) so I told him I gotta go.

Later, I get approached ... but wasn't feeling it, I played along anyways. His open was: Hey you're beautiful! Danced with him for a bit, until I made eye contact with Adam again. I told the guy I was dancing with that I gotta go.

So I went to talk to Adam again, and we danced a bit.. talked a bit, and then #-closed. (by #-close, I mean, he asked for my number and is going to text/call the next day or two). He wanted to kiss me, but I'm not down - I told him its because he's been smoking. We made a bet, if the kiss happens, I owe him a drink... if not, he buys. I told him good luck with that, and leave to find someone else. Great setup for a second meet up later in the week. Just made sure we didn't have time to get the drink.

Just one of the guys I approached last night, the others (#-closed one, flop on the other) are less interesting stories. Adam and I are texting logistics of meeting up - he suggests "bringing wine" because he lost the bet, but I don't want this to happen at either of our places. What's a good way to suggest going to a bar or somewhere public?

Also another problem I ran into last night was guys I've approached seeing me with someone else. Or is that even a problem?