Does not fapping help with approaching?

2011-10-30T21:09:13+00:00

Try it for a bit and see how it works for you. I don't really notice anything different unless I do it right before I go out or something, then it has a negative impact... Maybe just because I'm tired or lose sex drive.

I have however been cutting down porn viewing, my goal is to never view it and I have noticed nothing but improvements in seduction and life in general.

karmaval · 2011-10-30T21:16:11+00:00

I tried it, it doesn't help. In fact I think fapping before I go out helps me alot, that and a shot of Jack Daniels. I call it my, Jack and Jack routine.

MrP3rfect · 2011-10-30T21:51:05+00:00

Well, If you approach and fap at the same time, it will be a bit awkward. You can stop when she takes over thou.

GodofPH · 2011-10-30T22:06:24+00:00

The fapping debate is only second to nice guys in shit that never stops causing arguments here but still keeps popping up.

Different things work for different people. So people feel more confident and driven when they have abstained, others feel more relaxed from a fap before they go out.

See which works for you.

punisher2404 · 2011-10-30T22:24:31+00:00

I always feel like when I fap I dont care as much about seeking women as I did before it. So I too have been abstaining from touching myself. I did Have it pay off though, when I did end up getting with this girl. I came multiple buckets, instead of the usual spurt. Which is nice. She ended up taking what she couldn't finish in a 'To-Go' bag.

warpcowboy · 2011-10-30T23:11:06+00:00

I had surgery in my groin and erections were painful. Couldn't fap for four weeks but then waited two more weeks just to put the assertion up to the test.

Felt zero change in my overall outlook just from abstaining. I didn't get a sensation that I was ready to burst, either. What gives me that sensation is when I'm getting blue-balled on the dance floor, and that happens whether I haven't fapped for 6 weeks or 6 hours.

Just is a pointless way to torment yourself.

However, what abstaining can do is motivate you to get laid. If you make a deal with yourself that you'll depend on women to get off, then you'll probably feel a sense of urgency to make it happen. But there's no physiological benefit.

sillymallard · 2011-10-30T21:12:46+00:00

I believe the general opinion/evidence is mixed.

2011-10-30T22:24:28+00:00

I mean, it helped me, more info at /r/nofap

testmypatience · 2011-10-30T22:37:08+00:00

Fapping before making a decision to hit up a girl for sex will make you generally not want to see her after. You can correlate this with your drive to approach within a few hours of approaching. Therefore we can conclude that fapping hinders your ability to approach. This only matters if it is done within a few hours of going out. I am going to say about 8 hours before shouldn't matter but any closer and you probably won't give a fuck about approaching much because you have filled the void in which she would have.

Audacite · 2011-10-30T21:54:20+00:00

Yes it does. Studies have shown abstaining can make your testosterone level jump nearly 150%.

More analysis.

rmbarnes · 2011-10-30T22:11:24+00:00

Seems to work well for me if I go 3 - 5 days without fapping. Different people get different results.

MUFC_CHAMP19NS · 2011-10-30T23:15:58+00:00

Well not while you're approaching anyway.

puaCurveBall · 2011-10-31T00:39:58+00:00

This has been covered ad-nauseum, removing this topic as I don't believe it improves seduction as a subreddit.

Title	Does not fapping help with approaching?
Author	iArts
Upvotes	13
Comments	33
Date	October 30, 2011 8:55 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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