Last night dressed up for Halloween some friends and I headed out to the bar to go celebrate. The people I were with tend to be a bit stifled and nervous in general when out (one guy tends to be a bit of a value taker when out...), so I decided "fuck that, I'm going to get these guys to party hard".

Have Your Own Fun

I immediately stormed the dance floor and just let loose. My friends seemed nervous but I eventually got them dancing. I then thought about talking to some girls then got myself psyched out... then decided... nah fuck that go talk. I warmed up by opening a few dudes and couples (low investments and just getting me ready to talk to people) and then approached a number of girls. I'll only go into the more interesting one.

The Girl Who Pounced Me

I started talking to one girl, and immediately started escalating with her. She was super receptive but was on her way out, and then grabbed me and kissed me real quick before leaving. Awesome.

The Huge Group

I opened one girl in particular, and actually wound up kicking it off with her REALLY well. I NEVER buy girls drinks when first meeting them, but I was feeling a really good vibe after talking a bit and bought her one (she later offered me one). We talked and hung out the rest of the night, but unfortunately she was from out of town.

She introduces me to her huge group of (hot) friends she came with, and I was immediately welcomed and all of them were flirting with me pretty hard. Escalating with all of them, I mostly kept interest into the original girl. We dance a while, talk awhile, etc. BUT I made one big mistake... and that was not isolating her from her friends. She seemed like she wanted to make out, but was reluctant in front of her group, and I failed to isolate. Ass grabbings and lots of touching were had though.

Someone Attempts To AMOG Me, Fails.

This guy who was with the group of girls attempted to AMOG me pretty hard. He suddenly starts asking me if I'm gay and just pretty much tries whatever to tear my frame down. NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. I treat it like a shit-test as I would if any girl, tried it, and agree and amplify. I tell him I'm totally gay, and had sex with every single dude in this bar. He seems slightly shocked by my lack of a reaction, and tries some other tactic. I agree and amplify that as well, staying completely non-reactive.

Eventually, I start to befriend the guy. Joking around with him, giving him dude hugs, shoulder pats, etc. He lightens up and then accepts me as one of the group and doesn't try anymore AMOGing.

# Close

I tried to get the girl to come back with me to my place, but she is from out of town (already knew that) and staying with friends (she legitimately looked disappointed that she couldn't). I wasn't going to ask for her # since she is from far away, but she actually insists and says "Let me give you my #", then makes me call it so she has mine.

After Texts

Knowing that this probably isn't going anywhere since she's from a few cities away, I still text her 10 minutes after we part as the advice of David Wygant, pretty much saying "great meeting you, <insert inside joke here> - nycprowl" she immediately responds with some flirty messages and it goes back and forth one more time before I decide I'm exhausted and need sleep.

Some Questions

-Is it worth texting this girl anymore? What do you even text her the next day since she's long distance? She says she comes to my city fairly often but I'm not sure how to maintain comfort over long distances.

-Last night I totally didn't give a fuck at all and lived totally in the moment. I may go out again tonight, and would like to repeat it, but the party I'm going to, my borderline oneitis may be there... How can I keep my awesome frame from last night and not let her presence effect my game?

TL;DR: Title pretty much says it all, read the two questions above please.