for the past two relationships I've always done something really creepy that I don't want to do anymore.

Imagine you letting a girl sleep over. You like her and she's not ready to hook up yet. You respect her and give her space, but when you wake up shes like in your room.

I need to stop doing this. I just want to cuddle. I've done this twice.

  1. I went to see if he was awake because there was a possibility he would be and i wanted to talk to him and cuddle. When i found out he wasn't i freaked out and ran, so that he wouldn't see a girl peering at him while he is sleeping. he woke up to me running away, we eventually dated, but I could've not been a creep.

  2. recently, I started making out with this boy and he let me sleep over. I woke up early, wanted to know if anyone else was awake and wanted to cuddle maybe sexy times. He told me where he was if i needed anything so i went to check. I didnt know the house very well and the house was cold so instead of just waiting for him to wake up in the living room or something a normal person would do. I sat at the foot of his bed, looking away from him, trying to figure out what to do. He eventually woke up, didn't seem freaked out, but i feel like its a creepy thing to do.

Is there a way to get wake someone up for cuddles without being creepy? How would you guys like it. In all seriousness, i'm not planning on giving guys morning bjs just for cuddles.