Missing people to go out with.

TatM · 2011-11-25T06:45:52+00:00

Going out alone is where I have the most success. To be honest, my AA disappears when I'm alone because now even my friends don't know I made a damn fool of myself.

Game alone. Got social anxiety alone? Game alone anyway. Learn from yourself and keep going. Every time you force yourself to be uncomfortable & stay uncomfortable for a while, it will get easier the next time. It's like working out - seriously. The more you do now, the less it'll strain you later. Okej, so it's not EXACTLY like working out but close enough.

Your main thing right now: don't be afraid to go it alone. Look at it this way, guys like you & me maybe get a little anxious when approaching a group of girls as opposed to a single girl, girls are more likely to approach you when you're alone too and that's something to be stoked about.

No sweat, homie. Just do it.

nuckingFutz · 2011-11-25T06:47:39+00:00

Go out alone. It does wonder for your game. You'll find that your friends were likely holding you back, both in terms of what you could do and say, and logistics.

You use your first one or two sets to get into a social mood and for social proof. People will assume you are 'with' them. This is one situation where I say don't hit on the hottest girl first, find the friendliest group first, just to build state.

If you absolutely must have friends, bring a girl or two along. Don't have any girls to bring along? Arrange OKCupid dates at the venues you're going to. Friend zone the girls if it doesn't work out, then go party with them. Trust me, OKCupid girls are bored and would find it awesome that you just wanted to have fun.

brendo12 · 2011-11-25T07:03:08+00:00

When I have been to cities on business alone I still enjoy to go out and see the nightlife of the town I am in. I actually find that I have the best success alone because I am not distracted by my friends, especially if we bring other girls.

I enjoy having the excuse of being there on business, so I rarely go alone when I am home. But I still say you should at least try it. To be honest people don't really care who you're with and you can always say your friends just bailed even if they were never there if she asks why your alone.

2011-11-25T17:25:49+00:00

You have to start sarging alone, it's way superior to going with friends IMO.

Your confidence will go way up after you've walked into a few bars alone and made out with girls in 30 minutes. My success rate is way higher when dolo.

heckz · 2011-11-26T04:08:13+00:00

go out alone or make more friends. Or go out alone and make new friends!

Title	Missing people to go out with.
Author	TatM
Upvotes	20
Comments	19
Date	November 25, 2011 6:36 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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