I was at a small party last night at a friend's house.

One of her friends was a total catch: tall, beautiful, charming, vivacious etc. I really liked this girl.

Eventually, we ended up in a situation where we were both staying over. We were on separate couches in the living area. We had talked a bit during the party, and it had gone well. Once we were both bedded down with the lights off, we talked a lot more.

We really connected. Beyond being beautiful, she's smart, genuine, and caring. We probably talked for about 45 minutes. During that time we talked about belief in God, existence of a soul, following a person's true dream, learned about each other's families, etc.

After a while, I realized I really wanted to hold her. Time to courage up. I didn't know how to do it smoothly, but I figured, fuckit, ya gotta try, right?

So I said, "Hey, this might seem a little abrupt, but want to come join me over here?"

And she did. After a few minutes, I told her she was even more beautiful up close. Then kissed her.

I've said this before, but it bears repeating. You don't have to be super smooth. You just have to be brave and act.

I mentioned David Shade's manual in my other FR. It's phenomenal.

I want to expand on something a little bit: the importance of bed communication.

Sex is all about making each other feel special, sexy, and appreciated.

For instance, compliment her in bed. My girl was a really lively and sexy kisser. I told her, "Hey, I like the way you kiss. It's really cute and sexy." She liked that.

When I took her shirt off, I noticed she had sexy shoulders. Complimented them.

"Hey, I like it when you do that." "Do you like that?" "I love your body." etc. etc. "That turns me on so much when you do that."

That's like... romantic bed talk.

Later, if you're having sex and it's getting intense, then you can go towards dirty talk. Stuff like, "You like that! You love it when I fuck you deep, don't you?" Combine this stuff with hair pulling and neck biting, and holy shit girls go nuts.

I like a smooth blend of romantic talk and dirty talk. One moment I might tell her how I love that she's so horny and that she's a bad girl. The next moment I might say something really sweet.

David Shade talks about this: he says most of the time women are forced to choose between sweet guys and dominant guys. The sweet guys aren't dominant (AFC's) and the dominant guys aren't sweet (AMOG/assholes). If you can be both dominant and sweet, women will feel very comfortable getting sexual with you and letting their sexual side out.

Once I understood this, I started having fantastic sex from the very first encounter.

That happened with this girl. Based on our conversation, she felt comfortable enough to lay with me. Then I escalated smoothly and made her feel sexy and turned on. We eventually had awesome sex for like 45 minutes.

I'm really happy. I really like this girl. She's girlfriend material, and I feel like it's time for that. I'm kinda giddy with excitement! Anyway, hope this helps.