Not into Asians.. shit test or not?

PLplotsOTS · 2012-01-24T04:53:44+00:00

"That's fine, I'm not into racists."

Okay, I'll be serious now. You could use the above, but it would take exceptionally good delivery to not come across as insulting. If they explicitly mention dating Asians, you can call them out with "woah there, we just met and you're already thinking of dating!? ;)" If she's Asian, you can joke about "betraying the cause." The problem I have with your response is that 1) you're buying into her system of rejecting specific races 2) it conveys your interest in her without boosting your position (or lowering hers) in any way.

Whether it's a shit test or an actual preference of hers, your reaction should be the same: don't let it phase you.

ihatefuckeverything · 2012-01-24T04:45:36+00:00

"There is over a billion Asians, we can't all be the same"

MARSpu · 2012-01-24T04:29:41+00:00

Some shit tests aren't consciously used, as in the people using them aren't actually trying to throw you off. In any event, as with all shit tests, just keep your frame and laugh it off. The moment you lose your frame is the moment when you fail the shit test.

documents1856 · 2012-01-24T04:39:32+00:00

I'm Asian myself and always wondered about this when approaching white girls, granted I never let any racial barrier become apparent, just a guy looking for a girl who wants to have some fun. I've score rack time but I've never been brick walled by that before. I would totally have lost my frame, but you handled it pretty well it seems. Honestly with that kind of response I'd would have not wanted to go down that road anyway

wutzu · 2012-01-24T04:57:17+00:00

Probably a shit test. Ignore, or agree and amplify, like this:

"It sounds racist, but I agree. Think about it - over a billion people in China, plenty more in the other Asian countries. A lot of women just can't keep up with an an Asian guy."

Title	Not into Asians.. shit test or not?
Author	yenners
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	January 24, 2012 4:18 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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