Could someone summarize what NLP and patterns are?

JRAlpha · 2012-01-29T16:35:58+00:00

From what I gather, basic idea of NLP is to elicit desirable emotions and then anchor them to yourself or to a word or an action that can fire them on demand. So you for example get her to remember the most amazing sex she ever had and then associate it with a word which you say when you want to get her into that state. It is similar to how certain songs will make you remember certain good or bad experiences.

Patters are just routines which achieve the above goal, it can be pretty hard to come up with anchors on the spot so people memorise stuff.

From what I gather, it is very powerful, but hard to learn and it can be hit and miss; some people are simply resistant or very hard to anchor.

Yiggs · 2012-01-29T16:37:09+00:00

I was curious myself so I checked the glossary definition. Not only was it extremely vague, the whole thing read like an over-hyped new-agey primer on using magick. Man did they manage to make that all sound like a lot of woo wrt October man sequence.

cfoust · 2012-01-29T17:32:30+00:00

NLP is a study of how language effects your brain, in short. A "pattern" is different than NLP but it uses NLP, Ross Jeffries' speed seduction patterns are meant to cause a girl to feel certain emotions, the idea being that words for women double as experiences, which is why romance novels are written the way they are.

The octoberman pattern is discouraged from use because it requires them to feel a negative emotion, which can be traumatic. I don't believe it was invented by Ross, either.

Like JRAlpha said, a pattern is just a routine. You memorize it like a routine, although you'd want to learn why and how it works too, and in a conversation you bring it up just like a routine.

I personally haven't tried using a SS pattern yet. I've had sets where I used more "emotional language" and it seems to have worked okay, but I haven't done enough to stamp it with my seal of approval.

2012-01-29T18:06:44+00:00

It's some creepy thing where guys try to hypnotize women into sleeping with them.

Fortunately it's not discussed much on seduction forums--probably because it's bullshit and doesn't work.

PLplotsOTS · 2012-01-29T19:06:45+00:00

Did some research on NLP at Fastseduction.com the other day. I think that NLP is bullshit and Ross Jeffries' method is insane. However, a few NLP techniques, once separated from the "patterning" and "hypnotism" mumbo-jumbo, may be worth looking into:

InferiousX · 2012-01-29T20:11:55+00:00

An unnecessarily complicated method of getting laid

FAPSLOCK · 2012-02-01T23:02:31+00:00

It's like poetry for assholes.

LupoScuro · 2012-02-04T15:50:57+00:00

Personally I find it works great if you're already established in a relationship, but if you try NLP for pick up, it's kind of hard to not seem like a creep.

Title	Could someone summarize what NLP and patterns are?
Author	cfoust
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Date	January 29, 2012 3:07 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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